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I’m having separate affairs with my mate and his wife after regular threesomes 0 125

Stanley MyrickAugust 24, 2022 11:15 pmAugust 24, 2022

DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS enjoying regular threesomes with my mate and his wife but things have taken a dodgy turn.

Now I’m having affairs with both of them separately and neither knows about the other.

I’m having separate affairs with my mate and his wife after regular threesomes

Even though it is getting messy, I’m loving the thrill.

My mate and I are 40 and he married a girl two years younger, who we were at school with.

We all drink in the same crowd. My mate and his wife are overtly sexual, happy to show their frisky side when we’ve all had a few.

Recently she asked if I could go and help her put up a curtain rail. Her husband is the world’s worst DIY-er and his last attempts left chunks missing out of the wall.

While organising the room where the rail needing fitting, I moved her bed and saw her box of sex toys.

She giggled and said: “Ooops, you weren’t supposed to see that.”

We then talked about sex and she asked if I’d ever had a threesome.

She said she’d always liked me and had discussed threesomes with her husband.

She said: “We’re up for trying it if you are.” I drove home in a dream. I went back to theirs the following week, and after a few beers in the garden, I was very chilled.

We all went up to their bedroom and us blokes concentrated on her.

We had a great time and were soon at it every couple of weeks.

But one day, my mate messaged saying I was a real turn-on and that he fancied me. I was shocked but admitted that he was looking fit too.

His wife went to her sister’s a few days later, so I went round to his and we got it on, doing sexual favours for one another.

After she returned, I wanted to talk to her about it. But when I called round, she grabbed me and kissed me.

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We ended up having sex, just the two of us, and now it’s become a regular thing.

I don’t want to split them up but I’ve got a feeling this is all going to end badly.

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You are all betraying each other and someone is almost certainly going to end up getting hurt.

My guess is you’ll be the one stuck in the middle if all of this gets out.

Tell your friends you enjoyed your threesomes but would like to quit while you are ahead.

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Ensuring Safety and Consent in the Adult Film Industry: A Vital Discussion 0 259

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