What are the best sex positions for men? 0 39

WANT to spice things up in the bedroom? Well then we’ve got some tips for you.

Here are just some of the best sex positions for men – and they’ll be great for women too so you can both enjoy your bedroom antics.

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Woman on top

Many men love it when the woman is on top – it takes some of the pressure off them to perform and they get a great view.

A pretty self explanatory position, that allows for any degree of speed, whether you prefer to go slow or like it a bit faster.

This simple position is also a great one for those who aren’t the most experienced.

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Doggy Style

Doggy Style is a great position for those men who prefer to be in control during sex.

For this popular position, you will get on all fours on the bed, or floor if you’d rather, and then your man will get on his knees behind, grabbing onto your hips.

From here they can begin to thrust as deeply or shallowly as you wish.

The Butterfly

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To start things off, face away from your man and get him to pick you up, so your bottom half is level with his.

Then place your legs outwards, with your knees bent and your feet facing the floor.

Together, you’ll create the look of a butterfly – giving the position its name.

Your partner holds you up by placing his hands underneath your thighs, while you wrap your arm around his shoulder for added support.

The Lotus

The Lotus can be a sensual addition to your sexual repertoire.

To get in this position all you need to do is get your man to sit cross-legged, from here you get on top.

You’ll remain face to face throughout intercourse in this position, and going slowly can make this an incredibly intimate experience.

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The Butter Churner

A position not for the faint hearted, the Butter Churner promises mind-blowing orgasms.

The woman lies on her back with her legs raised and bent over so her ankles are pulled back towards her head. 

Then, the man squats so he can slowly penetrate her vagina above her – and the thrusting motion is said to be similar to making butter in an old fashioned butter churner.

This position will require a lot of communication to ensure neither party ends up injured.

The Waterfall

A fairly simple position, the Waterfall, places the woman in control.

Just have your partner lie on the edge of the bed, with their torso off the edge and their head near the floor – this is what gives the Waterfall position its name.

With your partner lying back, you then straddle them, and can decide where your legs should go.

An exciting position for the man, the head rush will give him a sensation he’s never felt before when he finishes.

The Wheelbarrow

The Wheelbarrow allows for deeper pleasure for both partners, and will give your core a great workout.

For this position you’ll just need to get on your hands and feet, before your partner picks you up by the pelvis. 

Once you’re relaxed and secure, grip their waist with your thighs for a tight hold, while your partner penetrates you from behind.

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

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I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

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Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

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It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

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