My boyfriend says he loves me, but he’d rather watch porn than have sex 0 133

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend says he loves me but his actions speak louder than words.

He’s hooked on X-rated sites like OnlyFans so prefers looking at that to having sex with me.

He’d rather look at girls on screen than me

I’m a woman of 38.

My friend introduced me to a single friend of hers and we hit it off.

He’s 42 and he’s never been married.

It was good at first but then he moved in and I quickly realised he’s hooked on social media sites.

He adds webcam girls to his Snapchat and now his OnlyFans profile is premium.

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I can’t get past this.

I don’t think I ever want to be intimate with him again because he’d rather look at girls on screen than me.

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