Partner is not speaking to me because I won’t go swinging with her 0 144

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner is in a right old sulk because I won’t try out a swinging session with her.

She says it’s on her list of things that she wants to do before settling down and having kids.

I am in the doghouse but I have nothing to apologise for

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I thought we had a great relationship and a good sex life until she threw this suggestion into the mix.

I’m 28 and she’s 27. I told her I was a one-woman man, but she just rolled her eyes and stormed out, calling me boring.

She’s barely spoken to me for weeks and has told her parents that we’ve had a big falling-out.

Now they’re threatening to pull out of giving us the deposit for our new home if I don’t apologise.

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But no way am I apologising when I don’t feel that I’ve done anything wrong.

I’m considering walking away from this relationship altogether. We’re due to move in two months.

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