I’m a sexpert and a smaller penis doesn’t have to mean bad sex – a ‘sleeve’ can do the trick 0 87

SEX is supposed to be enjoyable, but quite often a lot of pressure can be placed on the size of a man’s penis.

Many people believe that only men with larger todgers can have successful sex, but is that really the case?

Penises come in all shapes and sizes, but there are things you can do if a smaller todger is getting in the way

It takes two to tango and experts say that there are workarounds couples can try to help nudge along what happens beneath the sheets.

Sexual health expert Dr Michael Reitano said that having enjoyable sex is all about focussing on the positives.

“From a functioning point of view, the size of a man’s penis is the least significant aspect of their sexual capacity to provide a partner with the pleasure they desire.”

He added that it’s key to focus on sex acts that can be done, rather than those that can’t.

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It’s also important to understand that not everyone will orgasm from penetrative sex alone, with some people enjoying satisfaction from the fingers, mouth and toys.

Certified master sexpert at Bedbible Isbelle Uren, said there’s no definition of what is classified as too small, but if you find you aren’t getting enough stimulation during penetrative sex, there are some great options to add a little length, girth, or extra stimulation.

She did however, say that a penis sleeve could help for those who are a little less well endowed.

“A penis sleeves slip over the penis and add more length, and girth, and are sometimes textured for extra stimulation.

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“They come in a wide range of sizes, styles, and materials, but I would recommend looking for one that’s made of silicone as it’s the safest option.”

Research into the aid has previously found that they can preserve an erection during intercourse.

The average penis is around 5.16 inches and a sleeve can sometimes help extend this.

Initially they were designed to help men with erectile dysfunction, and while they are still used for that reason, they are now primarily used as a sex toy.

Isabelle explained that if you do want to continue with penetrative sex then there are different ways you can create a ‘tighter fit’.

“Firstly, you can squeeze your thighs together or cross your legs over during penetrative sex.

“You can also use a sex positioning pillow or a regular pillow under your hips to change the angle of your pelvis to create a tighter feeling or more stimulation against the front wall of the vagina.

“Another option is to use a C-shape couple’s vibrator, which is worn inside the vagina during penetrative sex and has a section to stimulate the clitoris — I love the We-Vibe Chorus”.

LENGHTY ISSUE

But having a small penis isn’t the only thing that people might struggle with and Isabelle said length might also be a road block for some couples.

She said that if your partner’s penis is too long, you might find that the head of their penis bangs into your cervix, which can be very painful. 

In order to make sex enjoyable, she said you can try silicone rings, such as the Ohnut that sit around the penis and act as a barrier that prevents your partner thrusting too deeply.

Not only that, but you should also experiment with different positions, she added.

“Sex positions where your partner thrusts into you are more likely to end up in pain, as no matter how good their intentions are, it’s almost impossible for them to know how deep they can go.

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“If you are on top, you control the movements and can better control how deep your partner’s penis goes.

“Positions, like spooning or the coital alignment technique, are great because less of their penis is inside you”, she said.

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

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