I’m an erotica creator – ocean sounds are the key to better orgasms EVERY time 0 90

IF YOU’RE wondering how to have the best orgasm possible, you’ve come to the right place.

For decades, porn has dominated our cultural perception of sex and turn-ons. 

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But now, there’s a new technique in town.

According to Gina Gutierrez, the founder of audio erotica start-up Dipsea, she believes that using sounds and imagination can expand our sexual horizons.

Not only this, but these sounds can also lead to more satisfying sex for women.

Dipsea is a content studio that produces short, sexy audio stories. But Gutierrez reveals that you don’t need stories to get started.

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Last week, in a keynote speech at the TED2022 conference, Gutierrez trained an audience of 1,500 people to get in touch with their sensual side.

She got them to listen to a 5-second clip of ocean waves crashing onto a beach.

Gutierrez said: “Were those not the sounds you were imagining I’d play? I bet that every person in this room is imagining something a little different, but filled with also sorts of distinct details about the surroundings about the circumstances. Audio is incredible.”

Gutierrez uses sounds to create a “blueprint” where the mind can fill in the blanks, characters and plots that resonate with them. 

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When creating a sexy scenario, Gutierrez said to “reach back into your memory” to imagine a comfortable, sensory-heavy environment.

Dipsea was funded by Gutierrez in 2018, to help people use their imaginations to get turned on. 

The Dipsea content studio writes, produces, and distributes hundreds of short, sexy audio stories for a $13 monthly subscription.

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The audio erotica on Dipsea differs from run-of-the-mill erotica by going beyond just storytelling, instead using other sounds and inflections to create an environment for personal intimacy.

Gutierrez explained: “It is not a betrayal to use your imagination to bring you more pleasure.

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“Fantasy is a safe space, and it’s time we bust the myth that what you fantasise about and what you want to happen in reality are always the same thing.”

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 28

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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Give yourself time and be kind to yourself. He put you down constantly, now you can start to build up your confidence.

I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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