9 best sex toys for couples to spice up your sex life 0 229

DID you know that 50 per cent of women can’t climax from intercourse alone? Think of the best sex toys for couples as a helping hand.

Whether you’re in a same-sex or straight relationship, sexual aids should be considered your teammates, not your enemies.

Some women need that little bit of extra clitoral stimulation to reach the big O, and some men can last longer when using vibrator-rings.

Even if your sex life is pretty good already, there’s always space for more fun. Our mantra? Don’t knock it if you haven’t tried it.

To help you find your third musketeer, here are the best sex toys for couples to shop now.

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Editor’s pick: We-Vibe x Lovehoney Remote Control Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator

  • We-Vibe x Lovehoney Remote Control Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator, £99.99 from Lovehoney – buy here

We-Vibe is a big name in the sex toy world. It makes solo devices for both males and females, but as its name might suggest, the brand is most renowned for its couple’s sex toys.

We tested out its collaboration with another industry giant, Lovehoney: it’s a U-shaped vibrator that stimulates both the clitoris and G-spot, and can be used either alone or with a partner.

Our reviewer thought this was a great way for couples to dip their toes into the sea of sexual aids available to them, and the fact that it’s waterproof and quiet means it can be used whenever and wherever you like (within reason and the law, of course).

Read our full We-Vibe review here.

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Best long-distance relationship sex toy: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

  • Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator, £139.99 from Lovehoney – buy here

Long distance relationships don’t have to be boring. Well, they definitely aren’t when you have one of these bad boys.

The Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator might be just short of £140, but it’s a best-seller for a reason.

Complete with three speeds, four patterns, a five-hour rechargeable battery and extra-quiet vibrations, and usable no matter how far apart you and your partner are, there’s no faulting it.

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Best booty play-beginner sex toy: Ann Summers Small Thai Anal Love Beads

Small Thai Anal Love Beads

  • Small Thai Anal Love Beads, £10 from Ann Summers – buy here

If you want to experiment with booty toys then it’s always good to start cheap, just in case you don’t like it – these anal beads are just a tenner.

These graduated beats are five inches in length, featuring a handle so you can easily slip them out at any time.

New to this? Ann Summers says to make sure you always use lube. More is more.

Best sex toy for tightness: My Viv Dialator Set

My VIV - Dilator Set

  • My Viv Dialator Set, £23 from Beautybay – buy here

Aimed at those who experience vaginal tightness and anxiety when it comes to sexual intercourse, the three dilator set by My Viv has smooth and soft, easy-to-use designs.

The set is made to be used gradually, starting from the smallest to the biggest dilator.

One customer says it’s amazing for beginners looking to grow their confidence and those who suffer from pain during penetration or even their partner’s fingers.

Best weekend away sex toy: Lovehoney Wild Weekend 11 Piece Couple’s Toy Kit, £69.99 from Boots

Lovehoney Wild Weekend 11 Piece Couple's Toy Kit

  • Lovehoney Wild Weekend 11 Piece Couple’s Toy Kit, £39.99 (saving £40) from Lovehoney – buy here

Lovehoney’s Wild Weekend kit has the full shebang for couples looking to play with sex toys.

This beginner-friendly selection features cock rings, vibrators, jiggle balls, anal beads, a rabbit and masturbator. Phew.

And at just £39.99 in Lovehoney’s sale, it’s an amazing deal — so grab it while you can.

Best sex toy for oral: Rechargeable Silicone Mouth Vibrator and Clit Stim

Rechargeable Silicone Mouth Vibrator and Clit Stim

  • Rechargeable Silicone Mouth Vibrator and Clit Stim, £19.99 from Bondara – buy here

If your lover can’t orgasm from receiving oral, then the Rechargeable Silicone Mouth Vibrator might just change that.

You simply clip it to your mouth, then select one of the seven vibrations and get down to business.

If you’re tongue-tied or have limited mouth mobility, then this is the perfect tool to help you out.

Best remote-control sex toy: Beautybay Unbound Divvy

  • Unbound Divvy, £58.45 from Beautybay – buy here

For those after a toy that will stand the test of time, Unbound’s range is a must-try.

Featuring a remote-controlled vibrator, the Divvy is perfect for fun between couples, allowing one partner to control the intensity settings or patterns.

It works from up to 30 feet apart and is waterproof too. Let your imagination run wild!

Best classic sex toy: Naked Grapefruit First Base

  • Naked Grapefruit First Base, £25.99 from Lookfantastic – buy here

Not all sex toys have to be super fancy. The Naked Grapefruit First base is affordable and customers seems to love it.

A classic seven-setting bullet, this waterproof vibrator is waterproof and rechargeable with the included USB cable.

Out of all 12 reviews on Lookfantastic, it has received 100 per cent five stars. “Tiny but mighty! Actually way more powerful than i thought and super cute and compact,” says one happy woman.

Best bargain sex toy: Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring

  • Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring, £8 from Ann Summers – buy here

Ann Summers’ Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring is a bargain buy at just £8.

It’s stretchy, comfy and helps keep him harder for longer, with rabbit ears made to vibrate on the clitoris during penetration.

You’re basically paying £8 for both of you to receive pleasure all at once. Ideal.

How many couples use sex toys?

Couples are actually a huge market for the sex toy business, making up a large proportion of sales worldwide.

Co-founder of Lovehoney, Neil Slateford, has said that 70 percent of the brand’s customers are actually in a long-term relationship.

What are the best sex toys for couples?

The best designs really depend on your own personal needs, because we all have different preferences in the bedroom.

When deciding, think about the aim of your game. Looking to up your oral technique? Vibrators are your best friend. Penetration? Grab a strap on.

There are so many out there to choose from.

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 28

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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Give yourself time and be kind to yourself. He put you down constantly, now you can start to build up your confidence.

I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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