When my boyfriend kisses me, it feels like he’s kissing his grandma. 0 184

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my boyfriend kisses me, it feels like he’s kissing his grandma.

Instead of a proper snog, all I get is a quick peck on the cheek.

The grandma kisses are such a turn-off

The only time he kisses me enthusiastically on the mouth is during sex.

We’ve been together for four years. I’m 26 and he’s 30.

Sex with him is OK, but it feels a bit like a chore.

I want real passion, like I had with past boyfriends.

We used to kiss for hours and it was so exciting.

My boyfriend never compliments me.

I want to be made to feel super sexy and attractive – and the grandma kisses are such a turn-off.

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I was hoping this would get better with time, but if anything it’s got worse.

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