I’m a dominatrix and kinky fans pay me up to $1,200 for sexy sessions – the craziest requests I get may shock you 0 45

A LEATHER-clad dominatrix has revealed some of the craziest requests she’s received, with several of her kinky patrons paying more than $1,200 for sexy sessions.

Unbeknownst to the American eye, dominatrix Terri-Jean Bedford is one of Canada‘s well-known public figures – but under her Madame deSade to her fans.

Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordCanadian dominatrix Terri-Jean Bedford revealed some of the craziest requests she’s received from her patrons[/caption] Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordSome kinky fans pay more than $1,200 for sexy sessions from the well-known dominatrix[/caption] Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordTerri-Jean Bedford described her exotic work to The Sun in an exclusive interview[/caption] Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordBedford says she enjoys teaching men to ‘respect women’[/caption]

Bedford documented her revolutionary rise as Canada’s most famous dominatrix in her autobiography, Dominatrix on Trial.

In an exclusive interview with The Sun, the leather-flogger-wielder described her exotic work and how she enjoys teaching men to “respect women.”

“I like to teach men a little behavior modification how to respect women, they will be longing certain things, their feelings, their emotions – put them in their place, and they like to be either forced into it,” Bedford told The Sun.

The temptress says her clients sign a contract before the acts and create safe words for when they reach their salacious limits.

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She revealed that the most common requests by her patrons are “bondage and discipline” acts because they “want to give up control”.

‘GIVING UP CONTROL’

“Well, bondage and discipline are very common because people want to give up control. And when you do that, you should try it sometime, It’s really fun, especially if you can get someone that you trust,” she said.

“And then you and the novices they get a little feeling of feathers, fur, a little spanking, a little pinching, a little poking, a little prodding, a little interrogation, and a given a safe word.

“And it’s not ouch. Usually something like Pumpkinhead or Congo squirrel,” the dominatrix added.

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Bedford said there are others who are ready to go the full mile and experience a complete “sex change”.

“There’s nothing really forced, but they don’t want to take responsibility for their actions. Whereas the other ones do, and they’re ready to go to sex change.

“But they don’t know how to walk and feel like a lady and makeup and what should I wear? You know, and so we move things on, and we have fun doing it. A little spanking & tickle goes a long way,” she added.

THREE-DAY ‘FANTASY CAMP’

However, for those curious men seeking to fulfill their kinky fantasies, the experience comes with a hefty cost.

“Well, actually, I promoted camps, three-day camps, because I don’t think an hour or a full day is sometimes enough for some people, especially if they want to learn how to walk, talk, act and feel like a lady-go on outings,” Bedford said.

“So I would offer a three-day fantasy for three days, and two nights they come in on a Friday. They leave on a Sunday at $1,200 plus tax.

“Some of them just want to come in, dress in their uniforms, and help out around the bed and breakfast cleaning. So I wouldn’t charge them a lot.

“I charge them like, you know, maybe $50 for use of the dressing room, etc.”

She added: “But others wanted to you know, have time to play, etc, etc. So it’s always between $100 an hour to $500 a day.

“If there was a lot of work to be done. They’d have play time, little time to prance around in their maid uniforms and take orders from my mistresses. So it was a lot of fun. It was like a clubhouse too.”

Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordTerri-Jean Bedford revealed that the most common requests by her patrons are ‘bondage and discipline’[/caption] Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordTo her patrons, Bedford is known as Madame deSade[/caption] Courtesy Terri-Jean BedfordThe dominatrix said he patrons are ‘perfectly sane’ with ‘huge disposable incomes’[/caption]

‘DISPOSABLE INCOME’

As for her patrons, Madame deSade says they’re misinterpreted as “crazy” when in fact, they’re “perfectly sane” with “huge disposable incomes”.

“So the most common misconception is that they’re crazy. When they’re absolutely perfectly sane,” Bedford told The Sun.

“They’re outstanding citizens with huge disposable incomes. They could, you know, put the $10,000 on the country club membership for golfing once a week, or they can put it on me, and I can facilitate, you know, their fantasies throughout the year or whatever.

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“But most of the people that come to me are sane and, and good people.

“The men that come to see me are very respectful. They want to serve on their knees as soon as they enter the door, begging me to do whatever I want.”

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

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It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

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