I had sex with a guy before our first date – then he ended it 0 108

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD sex with a guy before we even went on our first date – but he then ended it.

I’m a woman of 30. I joined a dating site and started talking to a man aged 32. He was just out of a relationship.

We ended up in bed before going out for dinner

For hours on end we chatted and wanted to develop things.

We had a date planned but I spontaneously went to see him.

The chemistry was explosive face-to-face. My body and soul ached for him.

We ended up in bed before going out for dinner.

We then spent a weekend together at my place and he was passionate and funny.

He went home and I texted him, asking how he felt about our future.

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But he called me back and said: “What do you want me to say? That you’re my girlfriend? My wife? You’re overthinking everything.”

He then said I reminded him of his ex and we were over. I’m heartbroken.

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In recent days, the Lensa app, a service that uses a neural network to create drawn portraits, has gone viral. To generate drawings, you have to upload 10 to 20 of your portrait photos to the app, from which the program will generate an avatar. But the app has proven easy to trick so that it creates soft porn.

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