My fiancée rarely wants to have sex but exchanges nude pictures with another man 0 94

DEAR DEIDRE: MY fiancée rarely wants to have sex with me and yet I’ve seen provocative messages, nude pictures and videos she has exchanged with a man.

She’s been acting suspiciously for a while and keeping her phone close.

My fiancée rarely wants to have sex but exchanges nude pictures with another man

One morning, while she was having a shower, I checked her phone to find she’s on numerous chat apps.

The messages were explicit and as I scrolled through, I found videos of one guy pleasuring himself.

They discussed sexual fantasies — something she has never done with me — and it was clear they have met in person.

I’m 47 and my fiancée is 45. We are both divorced and have been together for two years. Our sex life isn’t what it was.

She’s always tired, now wears pyjamas after always sleeping naked before and “needs space to sleep”.

She used to jump on me as soon as I got into bed. She doesn’t make that kind of move any more.

I’m tired sometimes too, but if you fancy someone there’s always time for sex. She is probably thinking about this other guy.

We are supposed to be getting married in August. I love her so much but am heartbroken.

I am trying to act as if everything is OK but can’t hide my feelings any more.

She knows something’s wrong because she recently told me I’m the only one in her life and there’s nobody else.

I can’t marry someone who’s cheating on me and behaves as though we’re brother and sister.

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It’s not going to stop while you keep quiet about it. But you can come back from a crisis like this and be stronger.

Tell her what you found and how hurt you feel. I’m sure she would not approve if you were doing the same thing with other women.

If there is to be a future for the two of you, you need to be talking and working out what’s gone so wrong that she is turning to other men.

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Lensa AI app could be used to create erotica or porn 0 45

In recent days, the Lensa app, a service that uses a neural network to create drawn portraits, has gone viral. To generate drawings, you have to upload 10 to 20 of your portrait photos to the app, from which the program will generate an avatar. But the app has proven easy to trick so that it creates soft porn.

Internet users say that if you upload topless photos to Lensa, the app disables the NSFW filter and generates nudes. 

In general, the idea of uploading your photos to a questionable app seems bad to many. The owners of the service assure that users’ photos are deleted after 24 hours, but it is impossible to check whether this is true. In addition, such services have repeatedly allowed leaks of users’ personal data.

The Lensa application is a SaaS product of Russian developers Prisma Labs. This is especially disturbing for the residents of Ukraine, where the application has also gone viral: Ukrainian journalists urge citizens not to give their personal data to Russians, because considering the work of Russian special services, no one can guarantee a sufficient level of security when using programs written by the enemy. To use Lensa, each user has to accept the rules – to agree to the training of the neural network in order for it to work more correctly. Photos go to Google Cloud Platform or Amazon Web Services cloud storage – and, according to the developers, are deleted from there in 24 hours after being processed in Lensa. 

Lensa’s creators assure that users remain anonymous. The app doesn’t specifically ask them for access to metadata such as geolocation. However, the metadata that identifies the user can be linked to the photo that the person uploads to the app. But the Lensa team promises that photos are cleared of metadata before they are saved to Lensa systems.For now, Lensa AI is available for private use, although it may well offer its services to corporations. To do so, they will need B2B SaaS marketing.

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Beer pong might be a good idea, what could go wrong? On that basis , streamers xQc and Adin launched the live stream a few days ago without fear of what might happen . Both North American content creators have spent hours playing games with their partners.

The girls in question have a long history online, especially in the case of Sky Bri, Adin’s alleged partner. She is an adult film actress and has participated in various streamers before, always displaying an aggressive and overt sexuality.

After playing beer pong and drinking alcoholic beverages, NYYXXII somehow asked permission to kiss Sky Bri. – May I kiss her? Kayla asked Adina. After a look and another question to his partner, NYYXXII approached Sky Bri to eventually kiss her with an implied passion that undoubtedly influenced the young Canadian streamer.

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