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I married my ex-boyfriend’s dad – we started dating when I was a teenager at school & we have the best sex ever 0 203

Stanley Myrick

A WOMAN in a 24-year age gap relationship has revealed that she’s lost friends after tying the knot with her ex-boyfriend’s dad.

Sydney Dean, 27, from Ohio, US, first met truck driver Paul, 51, as a sixth-grader after visiting her then boyfriend, Paul’s son.

Jam PressSydney and Paul Dean on their wedding day in 2016[/caption] Jam PressDespite what others say, the two have the best sex ever[/caption]

Despite their childhood romance coming to an end, they stayed friends during middle school and she would often visit their home after school and on weekends.

But when Paul’s son got a girlfriend in his mid-teens, Sydney found herself as a third wheel and would often chat to Paul, where they sparked a connection.

Now, people struggle to wrap their heads around their budding romance and the two-and-a-half decades between them — but she doesn’t care as she’s having the best sex of her life.

“He is the only person I have had sex with and he is the best,” Sydney told Jam Press.

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“I can’t really compare the sex to other relationships, as he is the first real relationship I have been in.

“I never expected to fall in love with Paul and we met in a non-traditional way, but I’m so happy I did.”

The pair started dating when Sydney turned 16, the legal consenting age in Ohio and in 2016, the pair tied the knot.

But she says their road to true love hasn’t been without its ups and downs — with the duo spending years convincing their families they were the real deal.

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She said: “My mum already knew who Paul was and from the few times they have talked, they got along just fine.

“But when I first told my mum that we were together, she was not happy.

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“The age gap really got to her and it stayed that way for about a year – eventually she came around.

“[After this] we would go to her house almost every weekend just to hang out or have a BBQ.

“Now that we live pretty close to each other, she comes over all the time.

“She’s 100% supportive of us and absolutely loves Paul.

“In fact, they probably chat more than me and her do.

“In the beginning my father didn’t like the age gap either and as he lives out of state, he didn’t see him as much.

“But now, he really likes him.”

As for Paul’s two children, the couple believe that his youngest took their romance the “hardest” as Sydney already knew him.

Sydney said: “He didn’t agree with the relationship for a couple years, but now that we have been together and are married, he supports us being together.

Jam PressSydney Dean in 2012 when she first started dating Paul[/caption]

“He comes over with his girlfriend and their three children every other weekend just to hang out with us and BBQ.

“Paul got into a horrible truck accident last July and was in the SICU for nearly three weeks.

“While he was in there, I would talk to his son everyday and we would come see him together.

“Now all the family is OK with us being together.

“I did have one friend that wasn’t OK with mine and Paul’s relationship.

“This friend would never want to come hang out or even talk to me much at all if he was around.

“She eventually didn’t want to be my friend anymore because of the age difference in the relationship.”

Sydney hopes sharing her story will help to remove the stigma towards age gap relationships.

She added: “I wish people would understand that couples with an age gap can truly love and care for one another.

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“There are a lot of negative assumptions about age gap relationships, but that doesn’t mean couples can’t be in it for the right reasons.

“He is the best husband I could have asked for, and he treats me so great.”

Jam PressThe 27-year-old claimed that now the family were okay with the two being together despite their age gap[/caption] Jam PressSydney said her man was the best husband she could’ve asked for[/caption] Jam PressSydney Dean (front row, C) Paul Dean (back row, C) and Paul’s son who Sydney used to date (back row, L)[/caption] Jam PressThe couple in a more recent snap taken in 2022[/caption]

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Porn and Mental Health: The Challenges and Strategies for Coping in the Industry 0 178

Alice Trout

Pornography is a billion-dollar industry that has gained widespread popularity across the globe. However, while it may be a source of entertainment for some, the industry can be challenging for performers’ mental health. The pressure to perform and meet the expectations of producers and viewers can take a toll on performers’ mental wellbeing. In this article, we’ll explore the challenges that the porn industry poses to mental health and strategies for coping with them.

The Challenges

  1. Stigma and Shame

The porn industry is still stigmatized, and performers can face a lot of shame and judgment from society. This can lead to a lot of stress and anxiety, making it difficult for performers to seek help and support when needed.

  1. Pressure to Perform

Performers in the porn industry are expected to meet certain expectations and perform at their best every time. This pressure can be overwhelming and can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

  1. Isolation and Loneliness

Performing in the porn industry can be a lonely experience, with performers spending long hours on set or on their own, away from friends and family. This can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, which can take a toll on mental health.

  1. Trauma and Abuse

The porn industry is not immune to issues such as sexual harassment, assault, and exploitation. Performers may experience these traumatic events, leading to conditions such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and depression.

Strategies for Coping

Seek Professional Help

Performers in the porn industry should seek professional help and support when they need it. There are many therapists and counselors who specialize in working with performers in the industry and can help with issues such as anxiety, depression, and trauma.

Practice Self-Care

Self-care is crucial for performers in the porn industry. Taking breaks when needed, exercising, and practicing mindfulness and meditation can help performers manage stress and promote mental wellbeing.

Surround Yourself with Supportive People

Having a supportive network of friends, family, and colleagues can make a big difference in performers’ mental health. Surrounding yourself with people who understand the challenges of the industry and offer non-judgmental support can help performers cope with the stresses of the job.

Address Trauma and Abuse

Performers who have experienced trauma and abuse in the industry should seek support and address these issues head-on. This may involve therapy, reporting incidents to the authorities, and taking legal action if necessary.

Conclusion

The porn industry poses significant challenges to performers’ mental health, from stigma and shame to pressure to perform and trauma and abuse. However, with the right strategies, performers can cope with these challenges and maintain good mental wellbeing. Seeking professional help, practicing self-care, surrounding yourself with supportive people, and addressing trauma and abuse are just a few strategies that can help performers in the porn industry maintain good mental health.

Navigating Consent and Boundaries in the Porn Industry: A Guide for Newcomers 0 165

Alice Trout

Consent and boundaries are crucial aspects of the porn industry, and it’s essential for newcomers to understand how to navigate these issues. In this article, we’ll provide a guide for those who are new to the industry on how to approach consent and boundaries in a professional and respectful manner.

First and foremost, it’s important to understand that consent is always required in the porn industry. This means that every actor must give explicit and enthusiastic consent to any sexual act that is portrayed on camera. Consent can be given verbally or non-verbally, but it must always be clear and enthusiastic.

In order to ensure that consent is obtained, communication is key. Actors should have open and honest conversations with their scene partners and the director prior to filming. They should discuss what they are comfortable with and what their boundaries are, as well as any specific instructions or concerns.

It’s also important for actors to feel empowered to set their own boundaries and to speak up if they feel uncomfortable or unsafe during filming. This means that if an actor does not want to perform a particular act or if they feel that their boundaries are being pushed, they have the right to stop the scene and speak to the director about their concerns.

It’s also essential for actors to be aware of their own physical and emotional limits. This means that they should take breaks as needed, communicate with their scene partner and director about any discomfort or pain, and engage in self-care practices to ensure that they are physically and emotionally prepared for the demands of the job.

Finally, it’s important for actors to have a support system in place. This can include talking to other actors who have experience in the industry, seeking out counseling or therapy, and having trusted friends and family members who can provide emotional support.

Navigating consent and boundaries in the porn industry can be challenging, but it’s an essential part of maintaining a safe and respectful work environment. By following these guidelines, newcomers to the industry can ensure that they are approaching these issues in a professional and responsible manner.

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