I don’t trust myself to be alone with my new colleague as he’s so hot 0 96

DEAR DEIDRE: OUR new warehouse manager is so hot that I’m scared I won’t be able to control myself when we are alone together next week.

The problem is, I’m a respectable woman of 41.

The devil on one shoulder can’t wait to spend time alone with him

I’ve been married almost 19 years and I feel like I’ve got a schoolgirl crush on this guy.

My husband is 45 and he’s lovely but very conventional.

He’s a tax adviser and very set in his ways. He doesn’t like eating out and takes the same sandwiches (cheese and pickle or egg mayonnaise) to work, day in, day out.

We only ever go hiking in Scotland for holidays and he won’t hear of us going abroad.

We have vanilla sex, Sunday mornings and Wednesday nights.

I’ve tried to change things, dress up for him, give him the come-on but he never takes the bait.

I work in an office for an online clothing company.

We were getting so busy that our warehouse team was struggling to cope, so our boss took on a new guy. He’s 37, single and he’s gorgeous.

He splits his time between organising the staff in the warehouse and sitting opposite me in the office. I can’t stop looking at him.

I have been more than keen to show him the various office systems and where to get the best coffee. I think he likes me too.

I’m now selective about what clothes I wear, I’ve bought some new perfume and I’m having my nails done.

I long for him to kiss me.

I had sex with my husband twice last week as usual, and I closed my eyes imagining it’s my sexy new colleague making love to me.

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We are working late together all of next week.

The devil on one shoulder can’t wait to spend time alone with him, but the angel on the other shoulder tells me it’s time to find a new job.

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In recent days, the Lensa app, a service that uses a neural network to create drawn portraits, has gone viral. To generate drawings, you have to upload 10 to 20 of your portrait photos to the app, from which the program will generate an avatar. But the app has proven easy to trick so that it creates soft porn.

Internet users say that if you upload topless photos to Lensa, the app disables the NSFW filter and generates nudes. 

In general, the idea of uploading your photos to a questionable app seems bad to many. The owners of the service assure that users’ photos are deleted after 24 hours, but it is impossible to check whether this is true. In addition, such services have repeatedly allowed leaks of users’ personal data.

The Lensa application is a SaaS product of Russian developers Prisma Labs. This is especially disturbing for the residents of Ukraine, where the application has also gone viral: Ukrainian journalists urge citizens not to give their personal data to Russians, because considering the work of Russian special services, no one can guarantee a sufficient level of security when using programs written by the enemy. To use Lensa, each user has to accept the rules – to agree to the training of the neural network in order for it to work more correctly. Photos go to Google Cloud Platform or Amazon Web Services cloud storage – and, according to the developers, are deleted from there in 24 hours after being processed in Lensa. 

Lensa’s creators assure that users remain anonymous. The app doesn’t specifically ask them for access to metadata such as geolocation. However, the metadata that identifies the user can be linked to the photo that the person uploads to the app. But the Lensa team promises that photos are cleared of metadata before they are saved to Lensa systems.For now, Lensa AI is available for private use, although it may well offer its services to corporations. To do so, they will need B2B SaaS marketing.

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