I’m a male escort – you won’t believe some of the bizarre and kinky things lonely women want me to do 0 41

PAYING for sex used to be thought of as something only men would do, but it is more and more likely to be a woman handing over the cash.

New films How To Please A Woman – where a male cleaning company offers “extras” on the side – and Good Luck To You, Leo Grande – which sees Emma Thompson play a widow hiring an escort – are bang on trend, as male escort services are booming.

ShutterstockPaying for sex used to be thought of as something only men would do, but it is more and more likely to be a woman handing over the cash[/caption] New film How To Please A Woman focuses on a male cleaning company who offers ‘extras’ on the side

As more women book encounters to satisfy their desires, Ross*, a 36-year-old escort in London, reveals what his job entails . . .

MONDAY: TWO BOOKINGS

IT might be the start of another working week for everyone else, but Mondays tend to be quiet for me.

I don’t think you’d pick me out as the male escort in a room. People think I’d be super buff and tanned, but I’d probably give myself 7/10.

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I’m no Magic Mike, but I work out, look approachable and friendly — and women seem to like that.

It helps that I’m brilliant in bed, too.

I get most of my work through an agency — and today I receive two bookings for later in the week.

I pay a monthly fee to put my details on the agency site. I won’t show my face online but will provide full frontal pictures for clients on request.

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I don’t want to be recognised online as who knows what I’ll end up doing in the future.

I’m an actor by profession, but it’s never really taken off for me.

TUESDAY: MISSIONARY POSITION WITH KATY

I CHARGE £150 an hour for in-person bookings, or £1 a minute for video dates on Zoom or WhatsApp.

I average two or three face-to- face jobs a week.

Tonight I’m seeing Katy, a regular, which is nice as I already know what she likes.

Clients rarely tell me their ages but I’d guess Katy is late forties.

Most of my clients are around that age, rarely younger, although one was in her twenties and the oldest in her sixties.

Tonight’s meet will be in a central London hotel. I dress to look smart and professional.

Sometimes I’ll get requests for specific outfits, like a navy suit or a fitted white T-shirt, but I’ve never had anything seedy.

You’d be surprised how “normal” most women want the encounter to be.

When it comes to undies I stick to classic tight briefs, which I’ve never had any complaints about.

I usually take a couple of props with me too, like a vibrator, some ties, oils and lubrication.

A massage is a good way to start touching if the woman is nervous, which first-timers often are.

Katy and I chat, then we have sex, very slowly, in the missionary position, her request. I always use a condom.

WEDNESDAY: I WORRY ABOUT CLIENTS FALLING FOR ME

I GOT into escorting by accident when talking to a trainer at my gym in 2018.

He told me he did it to top up earnings and then how much he made, which was far more than I did at my part-time, zero-hours gig.

I’m straight and love sex with women so decided to give it a go, as it meant I could still get to my acting auditions, too.

My first job was a lady around 50 who wanted me to use my hands to bring her to orgasm.

I was terrified but she seemed happy.

Luckily I’ve been single the whole time.

I don’t think a girlfriend would accept me doing this.

My biggest worry is clients developing unwanted feelings for me and confusing our encounters for a real relationship.

It has happened and if it escalates now I’ll just block them.

I genuinely like a lot of my clients, but there’s no love involved.

THURSDAY: WATCHING MARIE ENGAGE IN SOLO PLAY

THIS afternoon I saw Marie.

I was her 57th birthday present to herself.

The biggest difference with older women is that most are incredibly direct.

Marie wanted me to watch her solo play then join in.

I have one regular who likes me to spank her and another likes sex by windows.

Other clients just want to lie back and do nothing.

There’s also the women who don’t know what they want or have lost confidence after a break-up and I help them find their mojo again.

I find those jobs really satisfying — not giving up until she gets there and seeing a woman completely losing control.

Then I get paid for it. That’s good for the ego.

FRIDAY: DINNER WITH ANNABEL

SOME women just want my company.

One Friday a month I’ll see Annabel, who is probably only ten years older than me.

She’s lonely and wealthy and it’s about the “boyfriend” experience for her.

We always go for dinner at the big-name restaurant she used to go to with her ex-husband.

She gets dressed up, we have champagne and flirt.

At the end I kiss her goodbye on the cheek.

But nothing sexual ever happens.

SATURDAY: RE-ENACTING PORN WITH LISA

LUNCH out with my family before a job tonight.

Although it’s all legal, my parents have no idea what I do.

Tonight’s new client, Lisa, is too busy to date and wants no-hassle fun.

She is sick of men on apps sending d**k pics. I hear that a lot.

We order room service and watch some porn then copy it.

SUNDAY: REST DAY

NO bookings today. I might be single but the main thing I’ve learnt about women from escorting is how important it is to listen to them.

Sex isn’t everything, even when someone is paying for it.

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So many times I come away from an appointment feeling more like a therapist than an escort.

Maybe that’s what I’ll end up doing next.

*Name has been changed.

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 28

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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