DEIDRE SAYS: Put away the handcuffs and whips for now.
Nathan’s performance issues are no reflection of how attracted to you he is.
But ramping up the “X rating” in the bedroom only puts more pressure on him and may make the situation worse.
Erectile dysfunction is often worsened by anxiety. A man only has to be let down once or twice before worrying it will happen again, setting off a vicious cycle of anxiety and bedroom woes.
Instead, take sex off the menu for a couple of weeks.
This simple step is often enough to ensure confidence and erections return to normal.
My support pack Solving Erection Problems has more information.
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