I’m a private investigator – the telltale signs your partner is cheating on you 0 68

NO one wants to find out that their significant other is cheating on them.

But if you can spot the signs, you can get the upper hand in the relationship and it may even help prevent further heartbreak.

GettyIf you’re wondering if your partner is being unfaithful, there are some telltale signs to look out for[/caption] GettyAccording to a private investigator named Aaron Bond, your partner could be cheating if they suddenly start to spend more time on their phone[/caption]

Aaron Bond from BondRees.com can spot a cheater from far and wide thanks to his career as a private investigator.

Bond has shared the telltale signs you need to look out for if you suspect your partner of cheating.

PARTNER HAS CHANGED HOW THEY COMMUNICATE

Communication really is the key in any relationship, so if something has changed in that aspect, your relationship may be in trouble.

Bond said that a lack of communication from your partner is never a good sign.

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He added: “If your partner doesn’t discuss their day with you or isn’t interested in yours there’s usually something going on.”

A CHANGE IN APPEARANCE

According to Bond, a change in your partner’s appearance isn’t a sign of infidelity on its own.

The problem comes when the change in appearance is accompanied by other troubling behavior.

“A new haircut, going to the gym more, or taking on new hobbies that require them to be away from home for longer, could be a sign of infidelity,” Bond said.

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PARTNER IS AVOIDING YOU

If your partner is suddenly avoiding you or doesn’t want to do things they normally do with you, that could be a major red flag.

Bond explained that this behavior could be accompanied by your partner taking part in hobbies that don’t include you or a lack of interest in things that used to interest them.

The private investigator explained further: “This behavior can spiral and to the outside world, they will look as if they are in a depressed state.  

“They will seem lazier than usual, they won’t want to do anything and they may even stop showing love to your children.

“In this state, your partner won’t care about anything else than their other life.” 

A CHANGE IN YOUR SEX LIFE

According to Bond, there are two different changes to your sex life that should be a cause for concern.

First, if your partner suddenly has no interest in being intimate with you and doesn’t show you any affection, that could be a sign of cheating.

Also, if your partner is bringing in new techniques such as toys, positions, etc., into the bedroom, they could be learning that from someone else.

PARTNER IS ON THEIR CELL PHONE MORE OFTEN

Nowadays, it’s easier than ever to be unfaithful in a relationship thanks to social media and new technology.

Bond warned: “If your partner has started to use their phone more often or they are more secretive or they face their phone down when not in use you should be concerned.”

Another red flag is if your partner recently changed their password on their phone or computer.

A COMBINATION OF THESE SIGNS

A lot of times, people will have some sort of explanation for these signs and they may very well be a faithful partner.

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However, if your partner starts to exhibit many of these signs, it’s probably time to run for the hills.

Bond said: “When these signs are combined it’s a very good indicator that your partner is cheating on you.”

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

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He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

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