I’m part of a throuple and we all sleep together – if one of us isn’t up for sex, we just roll over and doze off 0 84

SHE’S one third of a throuple, who all share the same bed.

People often ask Dani about her relationship with Steven and Pri – with many of the questions focused on the threesome’s sex life.

Dani answered a question about the threesome’s relationship as she spoke about what happens if one isn’t up for sexTiktok/@vicarious.afterdark Dani, Pri and Steven all sleep in the same bed together on a nightly basisTiktok/@vicarious.afterdark

One such query read: “Sorry might be personal but do you all kiss? During sexual time are you all separated?

“I know how poly works when all involved, just curious how it works (when one person isn’t involved).”

In response to the question, Dani shared a video from their bed, as Pri and Steven could be heard snoring in the background.

“We all sleep in the same bed, so if someone doesn’t want to participate we don’t kick the person out, we just roll over,” she said, pulling the blanket up over her head.

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In the comments section, people were largely divided about Dani’s revelation.

“I would leave the room no way do I want to hear that,” one person wrote.

While another added: “Pretty sure I couldn’t just lay there and listen.

“But to each their own.”

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“I hope ur joking,” a third wrote.

But others were more accepting of the setup, with one person commenting: “I would be the one that tries to ignore it and then join cause it sounds interesting.”

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“This is so funny lol. I would turn over and put some ear plugs in and say have fun lol,” someone else added.

“Hahahaha I love that you said roll over lmaoo it’s like shut up or join,” another person wrote, to which Dani replied: “Lmfaooo basically.”

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 28

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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Give yourself time and be kind to yourself. He put you down constantly, now you can start to build up your confidence.

I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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