The Cowboy is the hot new sex position to try tonight – and no, dressing up isn’t essential 0 84

THERE’S nothing wrong with the good ol’ missionary – but sometimes it’s worth trying new positions to spice things up a little.

Whilst the cowgirl has long been a favourite for many, there’s now a new addition for those keen to explore and go on a ride – the cowboy – and no, dressing up isn’t essential (unless it’s your thing).

Tell your partner to get ready for a ride – yee-haw!

The steamy position promises extra tightness and intensity, leading to more passionate sex and orgasm.

Begin by laying on your back – as you would with missionary – with them on top.

With your legs bent ever so slightly, have them straddle you and gently insert their penis through the opening created by your semi-closed legs.

This will be tight and create a particularly strong sensation for all parties involved.

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To make the ride even more exciting, they can fondle with your breasts – or hold down your wrists.

Because they’re in control, they can also lean back slightly and play with your clitoris – this is great for those who like to be dominant in the bedroom (and other places).

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Another similar position is the Pretzel Dip – a must of you’re a foodie.

This wild position has women on their right side, with their male partner kneeling and straddling their right leg.

Picking up and curling the woman’s left leg round his left side, the Pretzel Dip allows you to get up close and personal – great for intimacy.

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Women can lie back as it will be the partner doing doing all the hard work in this sex position that leaves his hands free to caress your body and curves.

Prepare for a wet ride that will make you both totally satisfied – yee-haw!

Get ready to twist into a giant human pretzel

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.

You can make it clear she is lying without playing her game, which would only escalate tensions and reflect badly on you.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 28

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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