I’m a relationship expert and this is why your partner may be rejecting you for sex – and it’s easy to change 0 188

IS YOUR partner rejecting you for sex? There may be a very simple reason why. 

A psychologist and certified sex therapist has revealed that people can feel “used” if the only time they are touched is for sex. 

TikTok/@drkatebalestrieri/Dr Kate Balestrieri said you shouldn’t only show affection when you are initiating sex[/caption] Instagram/@drkatebalestrieri/Dr Kate said women are conditioned to seek out sex after emotional connection, and men are conditioned to seek out sex to get to emotional connection[/caption]

Dr Kate Balestrieri uploaded a video and said the issue was one of “the most common complaints” she hears from couples.

On her @drkatebalestrieri account, she explained: “If you only touch and kiss your partner when you want to initiate sex, it is likely your partner will begin to feel objectified and used, and reject you more often.”

Speaking to Buzzfeed, Dr Kate added: “Women are often conditioned to desire sex after emotional connection, and see cuddling, holding hands, kissing, etc. as expressions of emotional connection necessary for sexual desire. 

“When their partners initiate touch, with the sole purpose of converting touch into sex, many women begin to feel objectified and used for sex.

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“Women are conditioned to seek out sex after emotional connection, and men are conditioned to seek out sex to get to emotional connection.”

She advised that couples talk about the importance of non-sexual touch to ensure both parties are happy.

Her video has racked up over 400,000 likes, with many people saying they related to her clip.

One said: “Well, this explains a lot.”

Another added: “Pure facts.”

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Lensa AI app could be used to create erotica or porn 0 42

In recent days, the Lensa app, a service that uses a neural network to create drawn portraits, has gone viral. To generate drawings, you have to upload 10 to 20 of your portrait photos to the app, from which the program will generate an avatar. But the app has proven easy to trick so that it creates soft porn.

Internet users say that if you upload topless photos to Lensa, the app disables the NSFW filter and generates nudes. 

In general, the idea of uploading your photos to a questionable app seems bad to many. The owners of the service assure that users’ photos are deleted after 24 hours, but it is impossible to check whether this is true. In addition, such services have repeatedly allowed leaks of users’ personal data.

The Lensa application is a SaaS product of Russian developers Prisma Labs. This is especially disturbing for the residents of Ukraine, where the application has also gone viral: Ukrainian journalists urge citizens not to give their personal data to Russians, because considering the work of Russian special services, no one can guarantee a sufficient level of security when using programs written by the enemy. To use Lensa, each user has to accept the rules – to agree to the training of the neural network in order for it to work more correctly. Photos go to Google Cloud Platform or Amazon Web Services cloud storage – and, according to the developers, are deleted from there in 24 hours after being processed in Lensa. 

Lensa’s creators assure that users remain anonymous. The app doesn’t specifically ask them for access to metadata such as geolocation. However, the metadata that identifies the user can be linked to the photo that the person uploads to the app. But the Lensa team promises that photos are cleared of metadata before they are saved to Lensa systems.For now, Lensa AI is available for private use, although it may well offer its services to corporations. To do so, they will need B2B SaaS marketing.

xQc shocked to see his girlfriend making out with an adult film actress on live TV 0 69

Beer pong might be a good idea, what could go wrong? On that basis , streamers xQc and Adin launched the live stream a few days ago without fear of what might happen . Both North American content creators have spent hours playing games with their partners.

The girls in question have a long history online, especially in the case of Sky Bri, Adin’s alleged partner. She is an adult film actress and has participated in various streamers before, always displaying an aggressive and overt sexuality.

After playing beer pong and drinking alcoholic beverages, NYYXXII somehow asked permission to kiss Sky Bri. – May I kiss her? Kayla asked Adina. After a look and another question to his partner, NYYXXII approached Sky Bri to eventually kiss her with an implied passion that undoubtedly influenced the young Canadian streamer.

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