From sexy wish lists to bedroom board games, how you can fall back in lust – like Kourtney Kardashian & her ‘sex fast’ Comments Off on From sexy wish lists to bedroom board games, how you can fall back in lust – like Kourtney Kardashian & her ‘sex fast’ 548

THEY are the celebrity couple who want you to know just how hot they are – snogging in public, draping limbs around each other, even licking one another’s feet.

So it may come as a surprise to learn that Kourtney Kardashian and fiance Travis Barker keep the magic alive by NOT having sex.

instagram/kourtneykardashKourtney Kardashian and fiance Travis Barker keep the magic alive by NOT having sex[/caption] Instagram/kourtneykardashKourtney recently revealed she and Travis had undertaken an Ayurvedic cleanse, which meant no sex or orgasms for 12 days[/caption]

Reality TV’s Kourtney, 42, recently revealed she and Blink-182 rocker Travis, 46, had undertaken an Ayurvedic cleanse, which meant no sex or orgasms for 12 days.

And she reckons the US pair’s sex fast worked so well she would recommend it to anyone who wants to reignite the spark.

She said: “Oh my God, it was crazy. It made everything better. Like, if you can’t have caffeine, when you have your first matcha, it’s so good.”

It’s certainly working, judging by her Instagram.

Her posts show the couple touching tongues on the red carpet, entwined in various states of undress and sucking each other’s fingers.

It seems celebs are just like us, unable to rely on lust lasting for ever, and that we could learn a thing or two from them about how they remedy this.

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Singer Justin Bieber, 28, often posts his appreciation for model wife Hailey Baldwin, 25, on social media – once commenting on one of her sexy Instagram pictures, “u turn me on”.

Love Islanders Molly-Mae Hague and Tommy Fury, both 22, love a flirt, with her recently posting: “Good Friday appreciation post of me and my best friend . . . Just obsessed with you.” Tommy replied: “I love you my baby.”

And whenever This Morning host Holly Willoughby buys a new pair of shoes, she road-tests them in the bedroom first, during sex with husband Dan Baldwin.

Holly, 41, said: “I love wearing new shoes during sex – and not just because it’s kinky. I do enjoy saucy games with my hubby, but I have found the best way to break in new shoes is to wear them during sex.

“It’s become a sort of rule whenever I get a new pair of shoes. I always wear them in the bedroom, during the sex act, before I take them outside.”

These famous couples are still very much in love and sexpert Annabelle Knight says there is no reason a long-term relationship should be lacking in that honeymoon magic.

Here’s Annabelle’s guide for how YOU can make like the stars and give your relationship that kiss of life.

Old holiday pics are a passport to pleasure

PORING over holiday snaps might not sound like the passport to pleasure but a trip down memory lane could remind you why you fell for each other in the first place.

Print out some photos of the two of you away together, in the early days, and set aside an evening to go through them together.

GettyPrint out some photos of the two of you away together in the early days and set aside an evening to go through them together[/caption]

Remembering different times of your relationship will help you to see how far you’ve come, as well as allowing you to identify the strengths you have as a couple.

Laughing at old memories will also release serotonin and oxytocin – feel-good hormones that will help you form a deep bond.

A recent survey revealed we have more adventurous sex when on holiday.

So why not recreate that vacation vibe with some tapas and sangria and see where the night takes you?

At least you won’t have to deal with sand in awkward places if you’re not on holiday for real.

Create a sexy wish list

Many couples forget how to communicate with each other.

Even if you’ve been with your partner forever, it doesn’t mean they should automatically know what you like between the sheets.

GettyMany couples forget how to communicate with each other[/caption]

As we grow our likes and desires change.

The best way to get what you want is to tell them, but if you struggle to find the words – after all we’re apparently a nation of prudes – I’ve got the perfect solution.

Get 14 pieces of paper, split them between you and your partner and write a sexy wish list.

It can range from the sweet and innocent, such as your partner nuzzling your neck, to the more erotic, like a kinky role play scenario.

Don’t show each other see what you‘ve written then fold the pieces of paper up and put them into separate jam jars.

Every night, open one each and fulfil each other’s wish until you’ve completed them all over the course of the week.

As Kourtney says doesn’t always have to be about the physical act of having sex that keeps the spark alive.

Write an erotic story together

WE all loved playing the game Consequences as kids so why not give it a bit of a naughty makeover?

Each of you starts with a blank piece of paper and writes down who, what, how, where, when and why.

GettyWe all loved playing the game Consequences as kids so why not give it a bit of a naughty makeover?[/caption]

Take it in turns swapping the paper as you write a few lines under each heading.

You can detail your fantasy sex scenario but it’s OK not to take it too seriously, and add a bit of humour.

Read the stories aloud to each other and it’s sure to provide you with a happy ending.

Recreate a sexy movie moment

Movies and TV can prove a great source of inspiration for romance.

Everyone remembers that iconic pottery wheel scene in the film Ghost with Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore.

GettyThe iconic pottery wheel scene in the film Ghost with Patrick Swayze and Demi Moore[/caption]

Playing with clay can be a real sensual experience so try booking into a class together.

Or how about a dance class – just leave the Dirty Dancing lift to the experts – as all that close physical contact will provide plenty of foreplay for later and ensure you have the time of your life.

They don’t call it the Strictly curse for nothing.

Learning a new skill together will bring you closer together as a couple emotionally and physically.

Try a sex ban

KOURTNEY and Travis are the latest to try this but it also worked for Abbey Clancy and Peter Crouch.

The model imposed one while training for Strictly Come Dancing in 2013 – and said after winning the glitterball trophy: “Let’s just say Peter’s looking forward to having me back.”

GettyAbbey Clancy imposed a sex ban on Peter Crouch while she was training for Strictly Come Dancing in 2013[/caption]

Swearing off sex may seem odd if trying to bring back the spark, but the saying “good things come to those who wait” is true, and knowing you can’t have sex makes for heady anticipation then great release.

It works best if you give each other some space.

The pandemic has meant we’ve all spent a lot more time with loved ones, but this can be a turn-off.

Gwyneth Paltrow and husband Brad Falchuck even lived in separate houses for the entire first year of their marriage.

So get glammed up, head out with a pal and send your other half sexy selfies to build the sexual tension.

Pop a pill (no, not the blue one)

YOU don’t need to book a five-star sunshine getaway to the Maldives to enjoy time together, but a change of scenery can work wonders for your romance levels.

An added bonus is the positive anticipation that planning a little trip will build.

GettyVitamin D is known as the ‘sunshine’ vitamin and can be absorbed from the sun or by popping a pill during winter[/caption]

Looking forward to something together helps to increase intimacy and makes you feel closer as a couple.

Vitamin D is known as the “sunshine” vitamin and can be absorbed from the sun or by popping a pill during winter.

It’s vital for looking after not only our brains, bones and immune systems but our libido too.

So there’s no need for that little blue pill.

Beat boredom with a board game

THESE days we’re spoilt for choice when it comes to TV and many couples spend the evening slobbing on the sofa, binge-watching a box set until late into the night.

It’s no wonder there’s a lack of lust in your relationship.

GettyPlay your favourite board games to play together but with a naughty twist[/caption]

Make a rule that one night of the week you hide the remote control and dig out one of your favourite board games to play together – but with a naughty twist.

Whether you choose Snakes And Ladders, Cluedo or Trivial Pursuit, the same rule applies – every time one of you loses, you must remove an item of clothing.

You can also get “adult” board games aimed at improving sexual communication.

Try the six-second snog

AS teens we snog for hours, as we were too young for anything else, but when we age we often forget the joy of kissing and head straight to sex.

The “six-second kiss” is a simple and fun activity that American psychologist Dr John Gottman recommends couples incorporate into their everyday moments.

GettyThe ‘six-second kiss’ is a simple and fun activity that US psychologist Dr John Gottman urges couples to try it[/caption]

It’s a way to connect mentally and physically, and reduces stress hormone cortisol while hiking love hormone oxytocin.

It improves your kissing – and may lead to sex.

If looking for a chance for a six-second smooch, look no further than your kettle – once the water boils, it’s time for you to get hot too.

Have a quickie

WHILE some might say it’s quality and not quantity that matters, I might beg to differ.

Couples often blame tiredness for lacklustre libido – who’s going to want to spend hours perfecting their tantric sex moves when they can barely keep their eyes open?

GettyOpt for a quickie because it can be a great way to reignite passion if strapped for time[/caption]

Instead, opt for a quickie because it can be a great way to reignite passion if strapped for time.

Pick a time when you have energy, like first thing in the morning before the kids wake.

Remember, the aim of the game is mutual pleasure and satisfaction, and so communication during your quickie is key.

Look into each other’s eyes

NOW, stay with me on this one because some people find it awkward to start with.

This is all about reconnecting on a mental and emotional level with your partner.

ShutterstockLook into your partner’s eyes and have them look into yours[/caption]

All you need to do is look into their eyes and have them look into yours.

Couples who do this for at least ten minutes a week found that their stress levels eased.

They also noticed they felt a higher level of compassion toward their partner, and enjoyed greater intimacy and more satisfied sex.

So, suddenly, looking into your partner’s eyes doesn’t seem silly.

InstagramWhenever Holly Willoughby buys a new pair of shoes she road-tests them in the bedroom first during sex with husband Dan Baldwin[/caption] instagramLove Islanders Molly-Mae Hague and Tommy Fury both love a flirt[/caption] Instagram / Hailey BaldwinJustin Bieber often posts his appreciation for model wife Hailey Baldwin on social media[/caption]

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Managing Relationships While Working in the Adult Industry Comments Off on Managing Relationships While Working in the Adult Industry 258

Navigating romantic relationships can be complex, and this complexity often intensifies when one or both partners are involved in the adult industry. In this guide, we’ll explore practical strategies for maintaining healthy relationships, fostering open communication, and addressing challenges that may arise when one’s profession involves adult entertainment.

1. Open Communication:

Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship, especially when working in the adult industry. Establishing open and honest communication channels helps build trust and understanding between partners.

Example: Provide communication tips, such as setting aside dedicated time for discussions, creating a judgment-free zone, and actively listening to each other’s concerns.

2. Establishing Boundaries:

Clearly defining and respecting boundaries is crucial for both partners. Discussing comfort levels, expectations, and limits ensures that both individuals feel secure in the relationship.

Example: Offer guidance on how to have constructive conversations about boundaries, emphasizing the importance of mutual consent and compromise.

3. Building a Support System:

Developing a robust support system is essential. This includes friends, family, or colleagues who understand and respect the nature of the profession and can offer support during challenging times.

Example: Share stories of couples who have successfully built strong support systems and provide tips on how to nurture these networks.

4. Trust and Transparency:

Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship but becomes even more critical when working in the adult industry. Being transparent about one’s work and addressing concerns promptly helps foster trust between partners.

Example: Illustrate the positive outcomes of trust-building actions, such as being open about work schedules, discussing potential challenges, and offering reassurance.

5. Educating Partners:

Sometimes, misunderstandings arise due to lack of knowledge. Educating partners about the adult industry, its dynamics, and dispelling common myths can promote a better understanding of the profession.

Example: Create a guide for individuals to share with their partners, explaining the realities of the adult industry, emphasizing the consensual nature of the work, and addressing misconceptions.

6. Coping with External Judgments:

Working in the adult industry often comes with societal stigma. Discuss strategies for coping with external judgments and maintaining a strong sense of self-worth within the relationship.

Example: Share empowering stories of individuals who have successfully navigated societal stigma, emphasizing self-love and resilience.

7. Seeking Professional Guidance:

Relationships can benefit from professional guidance. Encouraging couples to seek counseling or therapy when faced with challenges can provide a neutral space for communication and support.

Example: Highlight success stories of couples who have sought therapy to strengthen their relationship and provide resources for finding qualified professionals.

8. Planning for the Future:

Discussing future plans is vital for any couple. Addressing long-term goals, such as career transitions or family planning, helps both partners feel secure and invested in the relationship.

Example: Offer advice on creating a shared vision for the future, navigating career changes, and making joint decisions that align with both partners’ aspirations.

Conclusion:

Successfully managing relationships while working in the adult industry requires a combination of open communication, trust-building, and a proactive approach to addressing challenges. By fostering understanding, establishing clear boundaries, and seeking support when needed, couples can build strong, resilient relationships that thrive despite the unique demands of the profession. Remember, every relationship is unique, and adapting these strategies to suit individual needs is key to a fulfilling and supportive partnership.

Understanding and Navigating the World of Online Adult Content Comments Off on Understanding and Navigating the World of Online Adult Content 250

The internet has transformed the way we access and consume information, including adult content. Navigating this vast and often complex digital landscape requires understanding, responsibility, and respect. In this guide, we’ll explore key aspects of online adult content, helping you make informed choices while ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience.

1. Diverse Platforms and Formats:

Online adult content is not confined to a single platform or format. From websites and streaming services to interactive content, understanding the variety available is essential.

Example: Differentiate between mainstream adult websites, premium subscription services, and emerging interactive platforms, providing a glimpse into the diverse options.

2. Privacy and Security:

Respecting privacy is crucial when engaging with adult content online. This includes understanding the importance of secure connections, anonymous browsing, and being mindful of personal data.

Example: Provide tips on using virtual private networks (VPNs), secure payment methods, and the importance of reading privacy policies on adult websites.

3. Responsible Consumption:

Consuming adult content responsibly involves being aware of ethical considerations. This includes consent, avoiding illegal content, and understanding the potential impact on relationships.

Example: Share stories or case studies illustrating the importance of responsible consumption and the potential consequences of engaging with non-consensual or illegal content.

4. Age Verification and Restrictions:

Most countries have regulations regarding the access to adult content, often requiring age verification. Understanding and complying with these regulations is vital for legal and ethical reasons.

Example: Provide a step-by-step guide on age verification processes on different platforms and emphasize the importance of adherence to legal requirements.

5. Impact on Mental Health:

Consuming adult content can have varying effects on mental health. It’s crucial to be aware of the potential impact and seek support if needed.

Example: Discuss the potential consequences of excessive consumption, addiction, or unrealistic expectations, and provide resources for mental health support.

6. Consent and Ethical Production:

Understanding the concept of consent extends to the production of adult content. Ethical consumption involves supporting platforms and creators that prioritize the well-being and consent of performers.

Example: Showcase initiatives or platforms that prioritize ethical production, emphasize performer rights, and provide fair compensation.

7. Balancing Fantasies with Reality:

Distinguishing between fantasy and reality is important when consuming adult content. Developing a healthy perspective on sexuality involves recognizing the difference between scripted entertainment and real-life relationships.

Example: Share anecdotes or expert opinions on how to maintain a balanced view of sexuality and relationships while consuming adult content.

8. Community and Education:

Online communities and educational resources play a role in promoting healthy discussions about adult content. Engaging with like-minded individuals and staying informed contributes to a positive online experience.

Example: Highlight reputable online forums or educational platforms where individuals can learn more about various aspects of adult content, share experiences, and ask questions.

Conclusion:

Navigating the world of online adult content requires a balanced approach, combining awareness, responsibility, and respect. By understanding the diverse landscape, prioritizing privacy and security, and promoting ethical consumption, individuals can ensure a positive and consensual online experience. Remember, responsible engagement contributes to a healthier digital environment for both consumers and content creators alike.

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