Sexpert shares why it’s NORMAL to stop having sex over Christmas & how to get your spark back 0 215

DID your visions of warming up under the sheets this Christmas fizzle out to a big fat festive nothing?

Well you’re not alone. A sexpert has revealed how, contrary to societal pressure, it’s NORMAL to stop having sex over Christmas.

InstagramRom coms have led us all astray, it’s NORMAL to stop having sex over Christmas, an expert reveals[/caption]

Nadia Bokody, from Sydney, told stress “has a habit of bringing out the worst in us, and it’s usually our intimate relationships that bear the brunt.

“The real deathblow? This often translates to a drop-off in physical intimacy.”

Women are most affected by this – with one Stanford University study looking at over half a million women’s annual sexual activity logs and finding a steep decline in sexual interest around Christmas.

If you’re keen to get things going again, there are some ways to reignite that spark.

Instead of suddenly trying it on in the bedroom tonight, Nadia recommends laying some groundwork first.

She says: “Connective acts like holding hands, extended eye contact and kissing are all linked to decreased cortisol and a boost in the feel-good, calming hormone oxytocin.

“Ironically, the more of these non-sexual activities you participate in, the greater likelihood there is you’ll end up getting it on under the mistletoe after all.

“Because the calmer we feel, the easier it is to become sexually aroused.”

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And if things are already a bit strained, try not to snap at your partner when all that forced family time gets a bit much.

Nadia says: “We should also probably cut our partners some slack if they’re not exemplifying Christmas cheer.”

After all, we’re all a rollercoaster of emotions during the last couple of weeks of the year, especially during a Covid-19 Christmas.

Nadia previously shared the bedroom act all women hate and why blokes need to listen up.

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Lensa AI app could be used to create erotica or porn 0 45

In recent days, the Lensa app, a service that uses a neural network to create drawn portraits, has gone viral. To generate drawings, you have to upload 10 to 20 of your portrait photos to the app, from which the program will generate an avatar. But the app has proven easy to trick so that it creates soft porn.

Internet users say that if you upload topless photos to Lensa, the app disables the NSFW filter and generates nudes. 

In general, the idea of uploading your photos to a questionable app seems bad to many. The owners of the service assure that users’ photos are deleted after 24 hours, but it is impossible to check whether this is true. In addition, such services have repeatedly allowed leaks of users’ personal data.

The Lensa application is a SaaS product of Russian developers Prisma Labs. This is especially disturbing for the residents of Ukraine, where the application has also gone viral: Ukrainian journalists urge citizens not to give their personal data to Russians, because considering the work of Russian special services, no one can guarantee a sufficient level of security when using programs written by the enemy. To use Lensa, each user has to accept the rules – to agree to the training of the neural network in order for it to work more correctly. Photos go to Google Cloud Platform or Amazon Web Services cloud storage – and, according to the developers, are deleted from there in 24 hours after being processed in Lensa. 

Lensa’s creators assure that users remain anonymous. The app doesn’t specifically ask them for access to metadata such as geolocation. However, the metadata that identifies the user can be linked to the photo that the person uploads to the app. But the Lensa team promises that photos are cleared of metadata before they are saved to Lensa systems.For now, Lensa AI is available for private use, although it may well offer its services to corporations. To do so, they will need B2B SaaS marketing.

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The girls in question have a long history online, especially in the case of Sky Bri, Adin’s alleged partner. She is an adult film actress and has participated in various streamers before, always displaying an aggressive and overt sexuality.

After playing beer pong and drinking alcoholic beverages, NYYXXII somehow asked permission to kiss Sky Bri. – May I kiss her? Kayla asked Adina. After a look and another question to his partner, NYYXXII approached Sky Bri to eventually kiss her with an implied passion that undoubtedly influenced the young Canadian streamer.

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