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I’m a granny to six but love dressing up as sexy Mrs Claus for my hubby it keeps our sex life festive AND frisky 0 277

Stanley Myrick

AS MAURICE Garbutt returns home from a long day at work as a construction driver, he appears to walk into an empty house.

“Hayley, where are you?” the 56-year-old calls out to his wife. “I’m in here,” the waitress and gran-of-six replies, sprawled across the bed in her sexy Santa lingerie.

Glen MinikinHayley says nothing gets her husband Maurice in the mood like festive red babydoll outfits[/caption] Glen MinikinHayley says: ‘My husband always tells me I’m gorgeous. Dressing up makes sex feel more raunchy’[/caption]

Hayley, 54, from Finley, North Yorks, says nothing gets her husband in the mood like festive red babydoll outfits – similar to Bill Nighy’s backing dancers for the Christmas is all Around song in Love Actually – and she doesn’t care if people think they’re too old to spice things up.

She tells Fabulous: “Last year, I surprised Maurice with a sexy red bow outfit on Christmas night, teasing ‘what do you think of your present, do you want to open it?’

“He said ‘flipping heck!’ He absolutely loved it and has really got into dressing up in the bedroom since. It spices up our sex life.

“Maurice says I’ve got a nice figure and I should show it off.

“As I get older, I feel sexier with nice underwear, like corsets and matching knickers, as they offer more support.

“My husband always tells me I’m gorgeous. Dressing up makes sex feel more raunchy.”

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Maurice and mum-of-three Hayley have sex four to five times a week.

She says: “There’s that saying ‘you’re only as old as you feel’. And I know there’s another saying ‘mutton dressed as lamb’ but I don’t give a monkey’s.

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“If somebody said that to me, I’d just laugh and say ‘why do you want to be an old frump?’

“My husband doesn’t want me to be frumpy and I don’t want to be frumpy, so if we’re happy then what’s the problem? I just think some people just aren’t as adventurous as they should be.

“I want to look nice and in my head, I feel younger than I am. I think if you feel younger, you look younger, act younger, and enjoy life better. 

“When I go out with my grandchildren, people think they’re my kids. I’ll say ‘oh no these are my grandkiddies’ but I’m proud to be a gran as I absolutely adore them.”

Hayley and Maurice first dated when she was 16 and had a daughter together when she was 18.

But their families didn’t approve so the couple split and lost touch, before reconnecting on Facebook in 2010.

By then they had another two children between them.

They soon rekindled their romance – despite having not seen each other for 25 years – and married in June 2014.

As you get older, your sex life changes. You become more adventurous and you’re more open with each other.

Hayley Garbutt

Their six grandkids vary in age from 15 years to 10 months.

Contrary to popular opinion, Hayley believes sex gets BETTER as you age.

She says: “As you get older, your sex life changes. You become more adventurous and you’re more open with each other.

“When we first met, in the 80s, we would just do it military. Now Maurice tells me what he wants and I tell him what I want, that’s how it should be in a relationship.

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“As a teen, I wore little skimpy dresses, because I wanted to look sexy so lads would notice me. Now I do it because I want my husband to compliment me, and he does.”

As well as playing dress up, Hayley likes to go for early morning runs to keep herself “looking good and feeling fresh”.

She says: “I keep myself fit, I do a lot of charity runs so I have a good figure.

“I feel younger than I am. When I go shopping with my twin, I pick things up and she says ‘Hayley, that’s far too young for you’. I can’t seem to find that balance between the clothes I should be wearing at 54 and the outfits I want to wear. 

You don’t have to be skinny to look good. It’s how you feel when you put that outfit on. It makes you act sexier, it’s exciting and gives you that buzz.

Hayley Garbutt

“In the bedroom, you can wear sexy underwear at any age. I don’t feel any less sexy than I did when I was younger. I look in the mirror and think ‘You look good’.

“You don’t have to be skinny to look good. It’s how you feel when you put that outfit on. It makes you act sexier, it’s exciting and gives you that buzz.

“When my husband puts his hand on my knee, I know he’s finding it sexy too. It’s about your husband making you feel good about yourself, that’s important.”

Hayley loves wearing her sexy festive outfits throughout December.

She says: “I love walking around the house dressed up.

“My husband makes me laugh because he’ll say ‘Hayley the blinds are open. The neighbours will see you’, but I say ‘they shouldn’t be looking’.

“I’ll be in one of my outfits doing the washing up, the laundry, then I’ll say ‘let’s do a bit of jiving’ and we’ll dance together. We’re comfortable in our own skin and with each other.

“Sometimes if my husband’s coming home later than me, I’ll get dressed up in a sexy outfit. He’ll say ‘Hayley where are you?’ and I’ll say ‘I’m here’ from the bedroom.

In the bedroom, you can wear sexy underwear at any age. I don’t feel any less sexy than I did when I was younger. I look in the mirror and think ‘You look good’.

Hayley Garbutt

“I don’t want to be one of those couples who are stuck in a rut, sat around in their onesies.

“I did that for a while but then I thought ‘Hayley, what are you doing?’ So now I blast the heating and embrace my inner Mrs Claus.

“It’s good to be comfortable but I don’t want my husband seeing me in a baggy T-shirt and a pair of jogging bottoms.

“I want him to look at me and think I look good. And most importantly, I want to feel good within myself.”

Glen MinikinHayley says: ‘I want to look nice and in my head, I feel younger than I am. I think if you feel younger, you look younger, act younger, and enjoy life better’[/caption] Glen MinikinHayley says: ‘As you get older, your sex life changes. You become more adventurous and you’re more open with each other’[/caption]

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Alice Trout

Navigating romantic relationships can be complex, and this complexity often intensifies when one or both partners are involved in the adult industry. In this guide, we’ll explore practical strategies for maintaining healthy relationships, fostering open communication, and addressing challenges that may arise when one’s profession involves adult entertainment.

1. Open Communication:

Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship, especially when working in the adult industry. Establishing open and honest communication channels helps build trust and understanding between partners.

Example: Provide communication tips, such as setting aside dedicated time for discussions, creating a judgment-free zone, and actively listening to each other’s concerns.

2. Establishing Boundaries:

Clearly defining and respecting boundaries is crucial for both partners. Discussing comfort levels, expectations, and limits ensures that both individuals feel secure in the relationship.

Example: Offer guidance on how to have constructive conversations about boundaries, emphasizing the importance of mutual consent and compromise.

3. Building a Support System:

Developing a robust support system is essential. This includes friends, family, or colleagues who understand and respect the nature of the profession and can offer support during challenging times.

Example: Share stories of couples who have successfully built strong support systems and provide tips on how to nurture these networks.

4. Trust and Transparency:

Trust is a cornerstone of any relationship but becomes even more critical when working in the adult industry. Being transparent about one’s work and addressing concerns promptly helps foster trust between partners.

Example: Illustrate the positive outcomes of trust-building actions, such as being open about work schedules, discussing potential challenges, and offering reassurance.

5. Educating Partners:

Sometimes, misunderstandings arise due to lack of knowledge. Educating partners about the adult industry, its dynamics, and dispelling common myths can promote a better understanding of the profession.

Example: Create a guide for individuals to share with their partners, explaining the realities of the adult industry, emphasizing the consensual nature of the work, and addressing misconceptions.

6. Coping with External Judgments:

Working in the adult industry often comes with societal stigma. Discuss strategies for coping with external judgments and maintaining a strong sense of self-worth within the relationship.

Example: Share empowering stories of individuals who have successfully navigated societal stigma, emphasizing self-love and resilience.

7. Seeking Professional Guidance:

Relationships can benefit from professional guidance. Encouraging couples to seek counseling or therapy when faced with challenges can provide a neutral space for communication and support.

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8. Planning for the Future:

Discussing future plans is vital for any couple. Addressing long-term goals, such as career transitions or family planning, helps both partners feel secure and invested in the relationship.

Example: Offer advice on creating a shared vision for the future, navigating career changes, and making joint decisions that align with both partners’ aspirations.

Conclusion:

Successfully managing relationships while working in the adult industry requires a combination of open communication, trust-building, and a proactive approach to addressing challenges. By fostering understanding, establishing clear boundaries, and seeking support when needed, couples can build strong, resilient relationships that thrive despite the unique demands of the profession. Remember, every relationship is unique, and adapting these strategies to suit individual needs is key to a fulfilling and supportive partnership.

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Alice Trout

The internet has transformed the way we access and consume information, including adult content. Navigating this vast and often complex digital landscape requires understanding, responsibility, and respect. In this guide, we’ll explore key aspects of online adult content, helping you make informed choices while ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience.

1. Diverse Platforms and Formats:

Online adult content is not confined to a single platform or format. From websites and streaming services to interactive content, understanding the variety available is essential.

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Example: Provide tips on using virtual private networks (VPNs), secure payment methods, and the importance of reading privacy policies on adult websites.

3. Responsible Consumption:

Consuming adult content responsibly involves being aware of ethical considerations. This includes consent, avoiding illegal content, and understanding the potential impact on relationships.

Example: Share stories or case studies illustrating the importance of responsible consumption and the potential consequences of engaging with non-consensual or illegal content.

4. Age Verification and Restrictions:

Most countries have regulations regarding the access to adult content, often requiring age verification. Understanding and complying with these regulations is vital for legal and ethical reasons.

Example: Provide a step-by-step guide on age verification processes on different platforms and emphasize the importance of adherence to legal requirements.

5. Impact on Mental Health:

Consuming adult content can have varying effects on mental health. It’s crucial to be aware of the potential impact and seek support if needed.

Example: Discuss the potential consequences of excessive consumption, addiction, or unrealistic expectations, and provide resources for mental health support.

6. Consent and Ethical Production:

Understanding the concept of consent extends to the production of adult content. Ethical consumption involves supporting platforms and creators that prioritize the well-being and consent of performers.

Example: Showcase initiatives or platforms that prioritize ethical production, emphasize performer rights, and provide fair compensation.

7. Balancing Fantasies with Reality:

Distinguishing between fantasy and reality is important when consuming adult content. Developing a healthy perspective on sexuality involves recognizing the difference between scripted entertainment and real-life relationships.

Example: Share anecdotes or expert opinions on how to maintain a balanced view of sexuality and relationships while consuming adult content.

8. Community and Education:

Online communities and educational resources play a role in promoting healthy discussions about adult content. Engaging with like-minded individuals and staying informed contributes to a positive online experience.

Example: Highlight reputable online forums or educational platforms where individuals can learn more about various aspects of adult content, share experiences, and ask questions.

Conclusion:

Navigating the world of online adult content requires a balanced approach, combining awareness, responsibility, and respect. By understanding the diverse landscape, prioritizing privacy and security, and promoting ethical consumption, individuals can ensure a positive and consensual online experience. Remember, responsible engagement contributes to a healthier digital environment for both consumers and content creators alike.

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