DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.
She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.
My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger
I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.
She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.
Not that I’m even planning anything.
She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.
I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.
Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.
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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.
I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.
You can make it clear she is lying without playing her game, which would only escalate tensions and reflect badly on you.
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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”
Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.