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I went from being my husband’s only wife to one of NINE – it made me so uncomfortable, he had no time for me 0 205

Stanley Myrick

THE original wife of a man who went onto have nine marriages has admitted the set-up made her feel uncomfortable, as he had “no time” for her.

Arthur O Urso, from São Paulo, Brazil, hit headlines when he revealed his controversial marriage – where he is the sole husband of nine women.

Jam PressLuana Kazaki, 26, went from being husband Arthur’s only wife seven years ago to one of NINE[/caption] Jam PressShe admits it made her feel ‘uncomfortable’ at first as Arthur had ‘no time’ for her[/caption]

The model’s dream was rocked recently when one of his many wives called time on their romance – stating she wanted him all to herself.

While he’s still happily married to his eight wives and plans to have kids with each one of them, the polygamy-enthusiast once only had eyes for one woman.

Luana Kazaki, 26, bonded with her husband over their love of swinging and the couple tied the knot in the French town, Cap D’Agde – while completely nude.

Although she doesn’t plan on having any other husbands, she claims to feel “accomplished” with their marriage and finds a “fetish” in their bizarre situation.

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“For six long years, I was the only one who interacted with other people and Arthur just watched – it’s always been a part of us, both his and mine fetish,” Luana reveals in an exclusive chat.

“After all these years, I felt we should bring other people into the relationship and having several women seemed innovative, as well as [satisfying] our curiosity.

“Besides that, it would fulfil a dream of Arthur’s which he’s had since [being a teenager] and I actually feel accomplished.”

Luana says the experience of being with more than one person has taught them both valuable life lessons – but it hasn’t always been easy.

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She says: “[I’ve learned] to be more patient, as well as knowing how to live with several different minds.

“It’s very challenging, but it’s improved our characteristics and there’s an ease in solving problems now – but with more intensity.

“Today I can say that I feel comfortable having Arthur’s attention shared with the other wives.

“But a few months ago, when Arthur had no experience, I felt uncomfortable because there was no time for me.

“It was understandable because it was all very new in our lives. I had to be patient until he gained experience in the relationship and that’s what happened.

Jam PressBut Luana says it works great now as the women are all friends[/caption] Jam PressArthur has a ‘first come first served’ sex schedule[/caption]

“Gradually he was solving the problems and adjusting the details. Now everything is perfect. I don’t feel less important or less loved, especially because Arthur and I have been together for seven years.

“We live together in all kinds of situations, both days of struggles and glories. Our story is beautiful.

“We always try to support each other, respect one another and maintain good co-existence to make everything perfect.

“I don’t regret having opened this relationship, on the contrary, I think new experiences are always welcome – good or bad.

“It’s all so crazy as every day is different and there’s challenges, as well as surprises. We have a lot to still experience in this madness of love.”

I felt uncomfortable because there was no time for me

Luana Kazaki26

The OnlyFans model claims that their venture happened naturally, with their second and third wives following suit almost instantly.

Now seven women later, the couple are content with their situation – but ultimately plan to reach 10 wives.

As the women in Arthur’s life are all friends, their situation is a breeze – but not everyone outside the marriage understands.

Luana added: “My family are calm about our lifestyle because they knew from the beginning we wanted to live like this.

“At first it was difficult, especially because my mum is jealous of Arthur and her wish was that it would be just the two of us.

“In their view, what matters is that we’re happy and if we are, they are too.

“We’ve had several types of reactions from people when they see us all together, especially as it’s rare to see a threesome in Brazil.

“We are faced with looks, shouts, compliments, requests to take pictures – you name it.

“Many mention religion, saying it’s not in the eyes of God and that it’s a sin – we receive a judgemental message every 30 seconds online.

Jam PressLuana says her role as Arthur’s ‘official wife’ means the later members have to seek her approval[/caption] Jam PressLuana says she’s happy with just the one husband – while Arthur wants TEN wives[/caption]

“However, I’m friends [with Arthur’s wives] and there is a greater respect as I am the ‘official’ wife.

“In a way, you’ve got to have a great relationship with me, otherwise there will be disapproval.

“I don’t intend on having more husbands, as mine is already great – but I never say never, because I am an unpredictable person.”

Now, in a bid to “celebrate free love” the collective is planning on expanding their family and while Arthur used to have a “sex schedule”, he’s put this to one side.

Instead, he’s sticking to a “first come, first served” basis.

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“I don’t have a favourite wife for this to happen, we’re letting it happen naturally,” he previously said.

“The love I feel for each of them is the same. I think it would be unfair to only have children with one of them.”

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Alice Trout

Pornography is a billion-dollar industry that has gained widespread popularity across the globe. However, while it may be a source of entertainment for some, the industry can be challenging for performers’ mental health. The pressure to perform and meet the expectations of producers and viewers can take a toll on performers’ mental wellbeing. In this article, we’ll explore the challenges that the porn industry poses to mental health and strategies for coping with them.

The Challenges

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The porn industry is still stigmatized, and performers can face a lot of shame and judgment from society. This can lead to a lot of stress and anxiety, making it difficult for performers to seek help and support when needed.

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Performers in the porn industry are expected to meet certain expectations and perform at their best every time. This pressure can be overwhelming and can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

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Performing in the porn industry can be a lonely experience, with performers spending long hours on set or on their own, away from friends and family. This can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, which can take a toll on mental health.

  1. Trauma and Abuse

The porn industry is not immune to issues such as sexual harassment, assault, and exploitation. Performers may experience these traumatic events, leading to conditions such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and depression.

Strategies for Coping

Seek Professional Help

Performers in the porn industry should seek professional help and support when they need it. There are many therapists and counselors who specialize in working with performers in the industry and can help with issues such as anxiety, depression, and trauma.

Practice Self-Care

Self-care is crucial for performers in the porn industry. Taking breaks when needed, exercising, and practicing mindfulness and meditation can help performers manage stress and promote mental wellbeing.

Surround Yourself with Supportive People

Having a supportive network of friends, family, and colleagues can make a big difference in performers’ mental health. Surrounding yourself with people who understand the challenges of the industry and offer non-judgmental support can help performers cope with the stresses of the job.

Address Trauma and Abuse

Performers who have experienced trauma and abuse in the industry should seek support and address these issues head-on. This may involve therapy, reporting incidents to the authorities, and taking legal action if necessary.

Conclusion

The porn industry poses significant challenges to performers’ mental health, from stigma and shame to pressure to perform and trauma and abuse. However, with the right strategies, performers can cope with these challenges and maintain good mental wellbeing. Seeking professional help, practicing self-care, surrounding yourself with supportive people, and addressing trauma and abuse are just a few strategies that can help performers in the porn industry maintain good mental health.

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Alice Trout

Consent and boundaries are crucial aspects of the porn industry, and it’s essential for newcomers to understand how to navigate these issues. In this article, we’ll provide a guide for those who are new to the industry on how to approach consent and boundaries in a professional and respectful manner.

First and foremost, it’s important to understand that consent is always required in the porn industry. This means that every actor must give explicit and enthusiastic consent to any sexual act that is portrayed on camera. Consent can be given verbally or non-verbally, but it must always be clear and enthusiastic.

In order to ensure that consent is obtained, communication is key. Actors should have open and honest conversations with their scene partners and the director prior to filming. They should discuss what they are comfortable with and what their boundaries are, as well as any specific instructions or concerns.

It’s also important for actors to feel empowered to set their own boundaries and to speak up if they feel uncomfortable or unsafe during filming. This means that if an actor does not want to perform a particular act or if they feel that their boundaries are being pushed, they have the right to stop the scene and speak to the director about their concerns.

It’s also essential for actors to be aware of their own physical and emotional limits. This means that they should take breaks as needed, communicate with their scene partner and director about any discomfort or pain, and engage in self-care practices to ensure that they are physically and emotionally prepared for the demands of the job.

Finally, it’s important for actors to have a support system in place. This can include talking to other actors who have experience in the industry, seeking out counseling or therapy, and having trusted friends and family members who can provide emotional support.

Navigating consent and boundaries in the porn industry can be challenging, but it’s an essential part of maintaining a safe and respectful work environment. By following these guidelines, newcomers to the industry can ensure that they are approaching these issues in a professional and responsible manner.

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