I went from being my husband’s only wife to one of NINE – it made me so uncomfortable, he had no time for me 0 40

THE original wife of a man who went onto have nine marriages has admitted the set-up made her feel uncomfortable, as he had “no time” for her.

Arthur O Urso, from São Paulo, Brazil, hit headlines when he revealed his controversial marriage – where he is the sole husband of nine women.

Jam PressLuana Kazaki, 26, went from being husband Arthur’s only wife seven years ago to one of NINE[/caption] Jam PressShe admits it made her feel ‘uncomfortable’ at first as Arthur had ‘no time’ for her[/caption]

The model’s dream was rocked recently when one of his many wives called time on their romance – stating she wanted him all to herself.

While he’s still happily married to his eight wives and plans to have kids with each one of them, the polygamy-enthusiast once only had eyes for one woman.

Luana Kazaki, 26, bonded with her husband over their love of swinging and the couple tied the knot in the French town, Cap D’Agde – while completely nude.

Although she doesn’t plan on having any other husbands, she claims to feel “accomplished” with their marriage and finds a “fetish” in their bizarre situation.

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“For six long years, I was the only one who interacted with other people and Arthur just watched – it’s always been a part of us, both his and mine fetish,” Luana reveals in an exclusive chat.

“After all these years, I felt we should bring other people into the relationship and having several women seemed innovative, as well as [satisfying] our curiosity.

“Besides that, it would fulfil a dream of Arthur’s which he’s had since [being a teenager] and I actually feel accomplished.”

Luana says the experience of being with more than one person has taught them both valuable life lessons – but it hasn’t always been easy.

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She says: “[I’ve learned] to be more patient, as well as knowing how to live with several different minds.

“It’s very challenging, but it’s improved our characteristics and there’s an ease in solving problems now – but with more intensity.

“Today I can say that I feel comfortable having Arthur’s attention shared with the other wives.

“But a few months ago, when Arthur had no experience, I felt uncomfortable because there was no time for me.

“It was understandable because it was all very new in our lives. I had to be patient until he gained experience in the relationship and that’s what happened.

Jam PressBut Luana says it works great now as the women are all friends[/caption] Jam PressArthur has a ‘first come first served’ sex schedule[/caption]

“Gradually he was solving the problems and adjusting the details. Now everything is perfect. I don’t feel less important or less loved, especially because Arthur and I have been together for seven years.

“We live together in all kinds of situations, both days of struggles and glories. Our story is beautiful.

“We always try to support each other, respect one another and maintain good co-existence to make everything perfect.

“I don’t regret having opened this relationship, on the contrary, I think new experiences are always welcome – good or bad.

“It’s all so crazy as every day is different and there’s challenges, as well as surprises. We have a lot to still experience in this madness of love.”

I felt uncomfortable because there was no time for me

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The OnlyFans model claims that their venture happened naturally, with their second and third wives following suit almost instantly.

Now seven women later, the couple are content with their situation – but ultimately plan to reach 10 wives.

As the women in Arthur’s life are all friends, their situation is a breeze – but not everyone outside the marriage understands.

Luana added: “My family are calm about our lifestyle because they knew from the beginning we wanted to live like this.

“At first it was difficult, especially because my mum is jealous of Arthur and her wish was that it would be just the two of us.

“In their view, what matters is that we’re happy and if we are, they are too.

“We’ve had several types of reactions from people when they see us all together, especially as it’s rare to see a threesome in Brazil.

“We are faced with looks, shouts, compliments, requests to take pictures – you name it.

“Many mention religion, saying it’s not in the eyes of God and that it’s a sin – we receive a judgemental message every 30 seconds online.

Jam PressLuana says her role as Arthur’s ‘official wife’ means the later members have to seek her approval[/caption] Jam PressLuana says she’s happy with just the one husband – while Arthur wants TEN wives[/caption]

“However, I’m friends [with Arthur’s wives] and there is a greater respect as I am the ‘official’ wife.

“In a way, you’ve got to have a great relationship with me, otherwise there will be disapproval.

“I don’t intend on having more husbands, as mine is already great – but I never say never, because I am an unpredictable person.”

Now, in a bid to “celebrate free love” the collective is planning on expanding their family and while Arthur used to have a “sex schedule”, he’s put this to one side.

Instead, he’s sticking to a “first come, first served” basis.

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“I don’t have a favourite wife for this to happen, we’re letting it happen naturally,” he previously said.

“The love I feel for each of them is the same. I think it would be unfair to only have children with one of them.”

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 47

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 30

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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Give yourself time and be kind to yourself. He put you down constantly, now you can start to build up your confidence.

I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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