
DEAR DEIDRE: WOMEN are supposed to like foreplay, but my girlfriend isn’t interested in it.
She won’t give me oral either, or let me do it to her.
Sex was OK at the start, but now she just makes excuses not to do it
We’re both 18 and have been dating for four months.
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Sex was OK at the start, but now she just makes excuses not to do it.
Sometimes, she’ll go along with it to please me, but I don’t want to feel like I’m forcing her.
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