I’ve been body-shamed during sex – one man said the position made me look fat & another even suggested I go to the gym 0 46

A WOMAN has revealed the body-shaming comments she’s heard from blokes, with one even suggesting she worked out more.

With more than a billion active monthly users, TikTok has become the home to what feels like a never-ending stream of viral trends.

Olivia’s video has been liked by almost 40,000 people on the social media giantnilssonolivias/Tik Tok Some believed that it was the men’s insecurity speakingnilssonolivias/Tik Tok

Amongst them is the so-called ”passport challenge”, which gives you an instant face lift in minutes, the Point of View (POV) trend where one bottle girl explained what it’s like working in a posh club, and now the Kyle and Jackieo.

Here, social media users dance to the now-popular tune whilst revealing the different types of comments they’ve heard about their appearance, dating and other areas of life.

The trend has taken the platform by storm, with over 17,000 videos, amongst of which was one by Olivia Nilsson, a Swedish stunner.

In a clip, which has gone viral, racking up more than 500,000 views in just three days, the woman blasted some music whilst revealing the different body-shaming remarks blokes have said to her during sex.

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”Things men i have dated has said to me [sic],” read the text alongside the footage of her dancing in an oversized sweatshirt.

According to Olivia, who had appropriately captioned the video ”Boys”, one person had once made a rude comment in the midst of their most intimate moments.

”you look vert fat in this position,” the guy had deemed in necessary to say.

In another instance, one of her dates had noticed her stretch marks which seemed to have left him baffled, as he asked: ”haha what the hell is this?”

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During her time of having dated blokes, the Swedish beauty was even once met by a comment which suggested she worked out more.

”maybe you should go to the gym, do some squats,” a guy gave his very valuable opinion.

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Speaking of the intimate moments and Olivia’s love life, the young woman has also encountered someone who went as far as comparing her with adult movie actresses.

”Why can’t you be as good in bed as these [corn emoji] stars?”

Reflecting on her experiences, Olivia continued in the comments: ”I don’t know if this has to do with weight at all, just stupid boys who don’t know better than commenting a womans body [sic].”

The TikTok clip has blown up and has seen more than 400 comments, with many left outraged.

”Man, they really don’t perceive us as human beings,” thought one person.

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Someone else thought it’s probably best to not be dating anyone: ”What a great day to be single.”

A third also had a rather unfortunate experience of being body-shamed by their partner: ”My ex said with a smile that he loved dating a girl that didn’t look good from every angle… I left.”

Others promised that not all men were the samenilssonolivias/Tik Tok A few viewers begged the woman revealed their identitynilssonolivias/Tik Tok

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 40

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

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Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

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Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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