DEAR DEIDRE: EVERYTHING is perfect in my relationship except we rarely have sex.
I’m 25 and my boyfriend’s 27. We’ve been together for three years.
Everything is perfect in my relationship except we rarely have sex
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We kiss and cuddle and hold hands, but we don’t do anything more. I’ve tried but can’t get in the mood.
We met when we were teenagers but broke up after a couple of months when he dumped me.
I was heartbroken and never got over it.
I was so happy when we got back together but sex has never been great.
My boyfriend takes medication for depression and rarely wants sex.
I have anxiety but only have a small dose of medication, although it seems to have suppressed my libido too.
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I have put on weight and hate the thought of my boyfriend seeing me naked. I feel unattractive.
We have talked about the lack of sex but are unsure what to do.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Anxiety and depression can have a major impact on our happiness and sex drive.
A low sex drive can also be a side- effect of antidepressants, so tell your boyfriend to speak to his GP.
If your anxiety is linked to unresolved issues, therapy will help.
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