I couldn’t have sex and was left crawling round my house in agony with a UTI 0 247

A YOUNG woman was left unable to have sex and reduced to crawling around her home due to agonising pain.

Megan Pate said she felt like she was “weeing glass” for two years with a chronic UTI.

SWNSMegan Pate said she felt like she was ‘weeing glass’ for two years[/caption] SWNSThe 29-year-old was left in such pain with a chronic UTI[/caption]

The 29-year-old said it started when she had horrendous bladder pain while on a shift as a nurse in July 2018.

Since then she has been forced to spend £16,000 having her bladder lasered.

When the pain first started she was given antibiotics, but was admitted to hospital when it got worse.

She was diagnosed with painful bladder syndrome, a chronic condition causing bladder pressure and pain.

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But treatment failed to improve her pain and in April 2020 it became so bad that Megan had to walk hunched over because of her agony and started to become housebound.

She sought private care and was diagnosed with a chronic UTI by a specialist in London in June 2020, and started taking long term antibiotics.

After nothing changed, and inspired by Marnie Simpson, from Geordie Shore, she took the plunge to travel to Istanbul, Turkey, in August 2021.

She had intensive surgery to burn away the infected issues in her bladder and has now been put on antibiotics that are starting to improve her condition.

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Megan, a nurse, from Newcastle, Tyne and Wear, said: “It felt like I was passing blades of glass when I went to the loo.

“For the last two years I’ve had to crawl around my house because it’s too painful to walk.

“I can’t even share a bed or sofa with my partner, Jonny, 29, because I can feel the slightest shift in my bladder.

“We couldn’t have sex and even now I’m really wary in case it causes infection.

“It’s taken so long just to get to this point but I’m just looking forward to getting my life back.”

In August 2021 Megan flew out to Istanbul, Turkey, and underwent a bladder fulguration – a procedure to destroy abnormal growths or tissue.

“He told me my bladder was full of infected tissue so he had to burn it all off,” she said.

“It was so bad no antibiotics would have ever have helped.”

After suffering nine infections since the operation, Megan is now starting to see massive benefits.

“I’m not in excruciating pain everyday anymore,” she said.

“I have more energy and I can walk straighter because the pain is less.

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“It feels like I’m finally getting my life back.

“I still have to be careful with what I eat and am taking things slow but I finally feel positive again.”

SWNSShe said she couldn’t even share a bed with her partner as the motion would be painful[/caption] SWNSThey had to stop having sex as the pain was too great, she said[/caption]

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Porn and Mental Health: The Challenges and Strategies for Coping in the Industry 0 177

Pornography is a billion-dollar industry that has gained widespread popularity across the globe. However, while it may be a source of entertainment for some, the industry can be challenging for performers’ mental health. The pressure to perform and meet the expectations of producers and viewers can take a toll on performers’ mental wellbeing. In this article, we’ll explore the challenges that the porn industry poses to mental health and strategies for coping with them.

The Challenges

  1. Stigma and Shame

The porn industry is still stigmatized, and performers can face a lot of shame and judgment from society. This can lead to a lot of stress and anxiety, making it difficult for performers to seek help and support when needed.

  1. Pressure to Perform

Performers in the porn industry are expected to meet certain expectations and perform at their best every time. This pressure can be overwhelming and can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

  1. Isolation and Loneliness

Performing in the porn industry can be a lonely experience, with performers spending long hours on set or on their own, away from friends and family. This can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness, which can take a toll on mental health.

  1. Trauma and Abuse

The porn industry is not immune to issues such as sexual harassment, assault, and exploitation. Performers may experience these traumatic events, leading to conditions such as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and depression.

Strategies for Coping

Seek Professional Help

Performers in the porn industry should seek professional help and support when they need it. There are many therapists and counselors who specialize in working with performers in the industry and can help with issues such as anxiety, depression, and trauma.

Practice Self-Care

Self-care is crucial for performers in the porn industry. Taking breaks when needed, exercising, and practicing mindfulness and meditation can help performers manage stress and promote mental wellbeing.

Surround Yourself with Supportive People

Having a supportive network of friends, family, and colleagues can make a big difference in performers’ mental health. Surrounding yourself with people who understand the challenges of the industry and offer non-judgmental support can help performers cope with the stresses of the job.

Address Trauma and Abuse

Performers who have experienced trauma and abuse in the industry should seek support and address these issues head-on. This may involve therapy, reporting incidents to the authorities, and taking legal action if necessary.

Conclusion

The porn industry poses significant challenges to performers’ mental health, from stigma and shame to pressure to perform and trauma and abuse. However, with the right strategies, performers can cope with these challenges and maintain good mental wellbeing. Seeking professional help, practicing self-care, surrounding yourself with supportive people, and addressing trauma and abuse are just a few strategies that can help performers in the porn industry maintain good mental health.

Navigating Consent and Boundaries in the Porn Industry: A Guide for Newcomers 0 165

Consent and boundaries are crucial aspects of the porn industry, and it’s essential for newcomers to understand how to navigate these issues. In this article, we’ll provide a guide for those who are new to the industry on how to approach consent and boundaries in a professional and respectful manner.

First and foremost, it’s important to understand that consent is always required in the porn industry. This means that every actor must give explicit and enthusiastic consent to any sexual act that is portrayed on camera. Consent can be given verbally or non-verbally, but it must always be clear and enthusiastic.

In order to ensure that consent is obtained, communication is key. Actors should have open and honest conversations with their scene partners and the director prior to filming. They should discuss what they are comfortable with and what their boundaries are, as well as any specific instructions or concerns.

It’s also important for actors to feel empowered to set their own boundaries and to speak up if they feel uncomfortable or unsafe during filming. This means that if an actor does not want to perform a particular act or if they feel that their boundaries are being pushed, they have the right to stop the scene and speak to the director about their concerns.

It’s also essential for actors to be aware of their own physical and emotional limits. This means that they should take breaks as needed, communicate with their scene partner and director about any discomfort or pain, and engage in self-care practices to ensure that they are physically and emotionally prepared for the demands of the job.

Finally, it’s important for actors to have a support system in place. This can include talking to other actors who have experience in the industry, seeking out counseling or therapy, and having trusted friends and family members who can provide emotional support.

Navigating consent and boundaries in the porn industry can be challenging, but it’s an essential part of maintaining a safe and respectful work environment. By following these guidelines, newcomers to the industry can ensure that they are approaching these issues in a professional and responsible manner.

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