I bedded my hot boss at my work Christmas party – he lasted two minutes, I was crushed & couldn’t face him after 0 86

NEARLY half of Brits admitted to lusting over a work colleague in our Christmas sex survey – and for Sarah Barns, the object of her fantasies was her boss.

Describing him as “confident and good looking”, the hairdresser from Cheshire told how she’d long dreamed about bedding him.

Matthew PoverSarah Barns regretted having sex with her boss at the Christmas party[/caption]

The 26-year-old was working as an admin assistant at an insurance company at the time and decided the office Christmas party was her time to strike.

She told The Sun how she sneakily gifted her boss mistletoe in their Secret Santa and made eyes at him all evening as the booze began to flow.

But after months of anticipation, Sarah said she was left bitterly disappointed by her boss’ performance in the sack.

She explained: “I was attracted to my boss straight away.

“He was good-looking and confident, we hit it off and had great chemistry.

“When December rolled around I couldn’t wait for our work Christmas party and hoped we’d get it on.

“Everyone started drinking in the office early and I gave him mistletoe in the Secret Santa.

“We kept exchanging flirty glances over prosecco and ended up sneaking off together to his office.”

Things moved very quickly for the pair and soon they were in the throes of passion.

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“We started snogging and one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together,” she added.

However, it wasn’t long before Sarah’s festive fantasy became a holiday horror story.

Sarah said: “He lasted about two minutes, leaving me crushed and disappointed.”

Today we revealed the results of The Sun’s exclusive sex survey which found 15 per cent of people have cheated on their partner at their Christmas bash and 10 per cent plan to do it this year.

While some believe ’tis the season to get frisky’, Sarah firmly disagrees and admits bedding her boss was a “big mistake”.

She said: “I couldn’t face him after that night, but at least none of our colleagues ever suspected anything as we weren’t gone long enough.”

Sarah joins other bonking Brits who shared their saucy festive secrets with The Sun.

Our sex survey, which polled 2,000 adults, revealed 42 per cent of people lusted over a colleague and 17 per cent had slept with a co-worker at the Christmas party.

Of those who had cheated on their partner at the work bash, 51 per cent bedded a colleague, 27 per cent a boss and 17 per cent a “hot stranger in a bar”.

One fifth of Brits claim to have sex every day during the festive period and more than half, 53 per cent, make love between one and three times a week.

Around 30 per cent of Brits said they had kinkier sex in the run-up to Christmas and the majority, 34 per cent, had experimented with roleplay.

Surprisingly, eight per cent had given erotic “food-play” a go, including some who used Christmas dinner staples.

Our survey also found Jack Grealish and Margot Robbie are the celebs most Brits want to bed.

Matthew PoverSarah said she regrets sleeping with her boss[/caption] .The Sun’s exclusive study found 17 per cent of Brits have slept with a colleague at the work Christmas party[/caption]

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 47

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

My partner said he was on a work trip – but he was actually getting married and on his honeymoon 0 30

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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Give yourself time and be kind to yourself. He put you down constantly, now you can start to build up your confidence.

I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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