I’m a proud mistress and serial cheat – desperate, angry wives often call me but I never feel guilty, I just love sex 0 126

HAVING multiple flings with millionaires means tonnes of luxury perks from private jets, mansions to regular holidays.

However, for Gweneth Lee as one of Britain’s most well known mistresses, the real highlight is her interactions with the wives her multiple married lovers.

Jam PressShe has been able to travel the world thanks to her profession[/caption] Jam PressHer married lovers wives are often the most interested in talking to her[/caption]

Despite being branded a ‘husband stealer’ before, Gweneth rarely feels guilty about her work, because she’s not the one cheating.

She added: “Some (women she’s done business with) will call me to ask if their husband has cheated on them with me, even though I’ve never met their partners!”

Many of them get upset with her for it, including her own mum, but her late French dad never had much of an issue with her preference for married men.

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She was previously married but her husband died tragically and she is now polyamorous.

The serial cheater explained that when men are unfaithful with her, it has nothing to do with her, as it’s completely their choice to cheat.

Unusually, Gweneth always likes to ask her clients wives how they feel, because often their anger isn’t about her work and it’s a more commonly a deep-rooted issue.

“I’ve had several incidents where I’ve met men’s wives,” the mistress told The Mirror.

She said some were funny but others were not, and many were fine with their husbands infidelity so long as they keep getting money, gifts and the Range Rover for themselves.

The professional mistress, who is in her 40s, splits her time between London and California, with her flights and more often covered by her rich lovers, all of whom are also married.

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She recalls that one wife, texted while drunk to say she was with her husband, had found her name, and invited her to join them for a drink.

Gweneth said: “I told her to give me a call and she was really upset. Weirdly, she didn’t even ask if I’d had sex with him – and with this particular man, I hadn’t! We had just been on a few dates.”

She’s noticed that some women just want someone to blame but they can’t blame their husband.

This is often because he’s the father of their children or they want to continue to co-exist, or they don’t want to lose the benefits that come with being with a rich man.

Some wives even desperately try to get involved by offering threesomes and offer to have sex with her themselves.

Gweneth said: “The offer of the threesome came from the wife of one of my regular married lovers.”

She had been seeing a wealthy financier in London for two years who was stuck in a miserable marriage and was seeing other women apart from her.

He walked out on the unhappy marriage eventually and quickly remarried another mistress he had been seeing at the same time as Gweneth.

It was his second mistress, now wife, who wanted to have a threesome with Gweneth and her new husband.

The professional is keen to get involved this time as they are all open and honest about the situation.

She says that when secrecy and lies creep in is when the problems start.

Gweneth meets her many lovers through the affairs website IllicitEncounters.com, where she has had enough affairs to notice different cultural reactions to being unfaithful across the world.

She observed that British wives tend to stick to a ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ rule and many British men said it would break their wife’s heart to find out about his adultery.

However, many of her British clients insisted that if their wives did find out, the marriage would still recover.

She said: “They would simply sweep it under the rug, keep calm and carry on. The stiff upper lip is really a thing.”

Jam PressGweneth is Dutch and British[/caption] Jam PressWith her late husband Robert[/caption] Jam PressShe says honesty is the key to moving past the infidelity[/caption] Jam PressShe likes to talk to her clients wives, to find out the real issues[/caption] Jam PressGweneth’s grandfather said: “There are women who are lovers and there are women who are wives.”[/caption]

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My bitter ex told lies to my friends about my ‘small manhood’ after I dumped her 0 47

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger.

She never complained when we were together, but last week she told the girls in our group that being with me was “like kissing a soggy lettuce leaf” and that she “literally didn’t feel a thing when we were having sex” because I’m so small.

My ex is so bitter about being dumped that she is spreading nasty rumours around our friendship group – saying I’m rubbish in bed and have a small todger

I’m 25 and she’s 24. I think part of it is jealousy.

She knows a couple of the other girls fancy me and I think she’s trying to sabotage any chance I have with them.

Not that I’m even planning anything.

She’s so insecure and has a vicious tongue on her.

I’m tempted to let each of her so-called friends know what she really says about them in private.

Even her best friend gets a nasty critique every time she posts anything on Instagram.

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Her top is either too short, or her hair looks like wire, or her laugh is fake . . . it goes on and on.

I don’t regret splitting up with her but this last trick has really infuriated me.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let yourself stoop to her level.

You can make it clear she is lying without playing her game, which would only escalate tensions and reflect badly on you.

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You could maybe reply with: “Let’s just say she never complained when we were together and nor have any of my other exes.”

Your friends will soon see her behaviour for what it is – jealous insecurity.

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DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner said he was on a work trip two months ago, but he had actually got married and been on honeymoon.

Our relationship had become a bit predictable, but we still had regular sex and nice days out with our two young sons.

My partner lied about his work trip – he was really on his HONEYMOON

I’m 32 and he’s 37. Our sons are four and two.

When he returned from his “work trip” he blamed me for his cheating, saying I had let myself go and didn’t pay him enough attention.

He then told me he’d “traded up” for a better model. It didn’t stop there.

He said that his wife, who is 27, is absolutely stunning and makes him feel special.

Apparently this woman was a barmaid he’d met on a golf trip and they had been seeing each other for six months.

He told me all this, then marched upstairs and packed his games console and his clothes and drove off out of my life.

The thing is, we always talked about getting married but when we had kids there always seemed something better to spend our money on.

Mutual friends have told me he has moved into a new-build home on the other side of our small town and his wife has plenty of family money.

My sons are really missing him and I don’t even know how I feel.

Sometimes when he comes to visit the boys I beg him to come home.

But other times I’m so angry with him, I refuse to let him in.

Now he is accusing me of stopping him from seeing his children.

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Surely he can’t just show up when he likes?

I’m a mess and need to start getting a grip for the kids’ sake.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so sorry your partner ended your relationship in such a cruel way.

This man sounds selfish and immature, and quite frankly the way he has treated you is emotionally abusive.

It won’t feel like it now, but you really are better off without him.

He is behaving like he still lives in your home, by just turning up unannounced.

Tell him firmly that you would encourage a good relationship between him and your sons but he can only collect them with prior arrangement.

Start to put down your boundaries.

I’m sending you my support pack When Parents Fall Out, which you could pass to him to help explain why you need to co-operate for the future wellbeing of your children.

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Give yourself time and be kind to yourself. He put you down constantly, now you can start to build up your confidence.

I’d recommend seeing a counsellor to help you with this betrayal and am sending you my Counselling support pack.

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